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Hello friend. My name is Denise Renner
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and I wanna welcome you to my program.
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I'm so glad that you've
taken your time to be with me
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and I think I have
something so very important
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for you to hear and for me to say.
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And we're talking about
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how we can love others better.
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I was just thinking about
how important this is
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and that probably some
of you listening to me,
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you may be in a relationship
maybe with your spouse,
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maybe your child, maybe your in-laws,
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maybe somebody at work,
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and you're like, I don't
know how to get along
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with this person
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and want to love them better.
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Well, that's why we're doing this series.
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And I wanna offer you my 10-part video series,
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How Can I love Others Better?
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I think it's gonna help you
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and it comes with a companion study guide.
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And I just wanna suggest to
you, this would be amazing
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for a study group to go
through these lessons
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because when you discuss things like that,
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the knowledge just gets deeper down inside of you, of
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how we can love one another better.
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Also, I wanna offer you a free gift
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and this is my little book called, Gift of Forgiveness.
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Oh, that's gonna help you forgive.
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I've got testimony
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after testimony of people
who've read this book
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and somehow the Holy Spirit just got 'em
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and they were able
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to forgive even long time offense.
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Oh, it's wonderful
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and I want you to have it as free to you.
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And it also comes with
Redeemed From Shame.
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Shame is from the enemy
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and Jesus took our shame on the cross.
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So this is free to you.
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Just tell us that you
would like to have it.
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And also I wanna offer you
my book Who Stole Cinderella?
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that's gonna help you in your marriage,
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in your relationships.
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And I want you to have that.
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And if you need prayer, do not hesitate
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to call us.
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We are there for you.
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And in these times that we're living in,
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we need one another more than ever.
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So please call us - now stay with me
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and I'm gonna be right back.
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And we are going to learn
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some amazing things about -
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How We can Love One Another Better.
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It's time for big miracles
and changes in your life.
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Join Denise Renner
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and dive into the study of God's word which has great power
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to strengthen faith, inspire change,
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heal physically and spiritually.
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And most importantly, help you learn about the power
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of Christ Jesus living in you.
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It's time with Denise Renner.
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So before I start my teaching,
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I wanna give you a testimony
of a miraculous healing.
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I was at your service
and the Lord healed me.
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The vertebrae fell into place
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and I became three centimeters taller.
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Isn't that fantastic?
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And then a few years later,
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the Lord healed this person's eyes
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and now they walk without glasses.
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Now friend, I'm telling you,
Jesus is the same yesterday,
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today, and forever.
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He was doing miracles before.
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He's doing miracles today
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and he's going to continue doing miracles
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and we can experience those when we
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receive things by faith.
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And we believe the word of God.
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When we believe the word of
God, we line our heart up
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with the truth of God's word,
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which opens up the power of God to us
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to receive and to experience.
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But I wanted to share that
testimony with you. Now,
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we are talking about how we can love others better.
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We've already talked about, I
cannot say I don't need you.
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We already talked about help me,
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I am being critical again.
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Also, what does patience
have to do with love?
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And today this one is called,
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I Better Watch my Words.
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Oh, how important are our words?
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Well, they're really important
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because that's how the world was created.
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God just spoke and the
worlds were created and
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and so friend, I'm saying that
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because I want us to understand,
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think about, if God used words
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to create the very
atmosphere, the universe
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that we live in right now,
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if he's also speaking
universes into existence
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right now, then how important
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we are made in his image, how important are
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our words.
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It says in Proverbs that death
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and life are in the power of the tongue.
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And we are to choose which do you want?
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Which do you wanna experience - death or life?
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And it's in the power of our tongue.
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It's very important
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what I'm saying to you today.
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And so this lesson is very,
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very practical but also very informative
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and helpful. About our
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words, about the power of our words.
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We are saved
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because we believed in our heart
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and we spoke with our mouth.
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Now I've heard of all kinds
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of different people getting saved,
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but one thing on every testimony,
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it was involved their mouth.
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That's how important your mouth is.
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If they only said Lord, that's
what the apostle Paul said.
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All he said was Lord.
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And instantly salvation came into him,
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but it was through the mouth.
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So how important is your mouth
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and what you choose to speak
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through your mouth today?
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I wanna start with Proverbs chapter four
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and it's verse 20 through 22.
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And it says, my son, give
attention to my words.
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Incline your ear to my sayings.
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Do not let them depart from your eyes.
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Keep them in the midst of
your heart, for they are life
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to those who find them and
health to all their flesh.
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Now Proverbs, this is
what he's talking about,
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that what we're going to
hear today, read today,
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study today.
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It's going to bring health to your flesh.
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It's going to be bring
understanding to your mind.
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And so if we adhere to it,
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and that's what the writer
was saying, he's saying,
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what I'm saying is so important, you must adhere to it.
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And think of it this way.
This was written by Solomon.
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He was the richest man in the world.
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He was the wisest man in the world
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and he was very impressive.
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We should adhere to the
wisdom that was in this man.
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And so I wanna start with Proverbs 12:
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And, and here we read, we're
gonna read a lot in Proverbs
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and think of that also if
this man is so wise, so rich,
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so successful,
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and he writes about the mouth
so much, that should say to us
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that our mouth is very important.
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Okay, look at verse 14.
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A man will be satisfied
with good by the fruit
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of his mouth.
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So we wanna be satisfied
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by what's coming out of our mouth.
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Are you satisfied with the
words that are coming out
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of your mouth?
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Look at 12:18.
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There is one who speaks the piercing like a sword,
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but the tongue of the
wise promotes healing.
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The words that we speak are so powerful
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that it can come
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and maybe a sword has hit
you at one time or another.
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Or maybe words have come out of your mouth that were a sword
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to somebody else.
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But those were words,
that's the power of them.
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Maybe you're still suffering
from somebody's words,
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the piercing of the sword.
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But then that last part says
that last part says also,
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but the tongue of the
wise promotes health.
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How great is that?
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When we choose our words wisely,
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we can be promoting health
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either to ourself or to someone else.
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Friend, your words
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and the choice of your words
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is plowing out the place
in this world of your life
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and maybe of someone else's life.
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I - we couldn't,
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we could be used like an
instrument that brings health
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to somebody and not
bring a piercing sword.
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Look at Proverbs 14:1,
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and that verse says that a
wise woman builds her house
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and a foolish one pulls it
down with her own hands.
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This is a very powerful verse
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because it gives clear
instruction to wives
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that you're either building
or you're tearing down.
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There's no middle road.
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And one of the ways women
that we build our house,
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we learn in Proverbs chapter,
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in Proverbs 31,
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and in Proverbs 31, it says that the law
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of kindness was on her lips.
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She was building her house
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with her tongue, having the law
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of kindness. Now I was thinking about this one day
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and I was thinking, okay, the
law to the Jews is very, very,
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very powerful.
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Very strong. It's is a powerful thing in their life.
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And Proverbs says the law on her tongue,
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the law on her tongue is kindness.
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Well, a wise woman,
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she will correct herself
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by causing her speech not
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to be unkind in her home,
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but to be filled with kindness.
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That's really powerful. Proverbs 15:
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1 says -
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that a soft answer turns away wrath.
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Now this is so powerful: a soft dancer.
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Now in this world we are taught
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that if someone says something
to you that's unkind,
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well you need to keep your
borders, your boundaries.
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You need to say to them
what you think about them.
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Well, the Bible says that a soft answer
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turns away wrath.
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If you give back the same answer that
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the same answer of this,
this thing that came out
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of somebody else's mouth,
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you're just gonna stir
up more strife rife.
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But if you answer their wrath
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with a soft answer,
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your soft answer will
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rebuke their wrath.
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What do I mean by that? It will stop it.
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It will stop it.
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No one can argue with a soft answer.
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You just can't.
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You just cannot argue with a soft answer
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because a soft answer,
oh, this is powerful.
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A soft answer is more powerful than a
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wrathful attack.
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Look at Jesus - what Jesus did.
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The enemy came with
all kinds of things to,
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to bring him down, to criticize him.
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He used people against him.
He they tried to kill him.
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They tried. They tried to shut him up.
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They tried to do everything
in Him to stop him.
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But the love of God in him was
greater than all the offense,
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than all the criticism,
than all the denial,
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than all accusing him to be the
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the prince of demons.
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Can you imagine accusing him to be a drunkard. Jesus,
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he could have answered in a wrong way
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because he was a hundred percent God,
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but he was a hundred percent man.
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And just like you and I, we have to choose.
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Jesus was choosing all that time.
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He knew the word of God. He
knew he knew this scripture.
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He knew
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that a soft answer turns away wrath.
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In his ministry
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and those who attacked him
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and those who came
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he may have answered strongly,
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but he answered with a soft answer,
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not a wrathful answer.
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And it turned away their wrath.
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And he lives inside of you.
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And you and I are equipped
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to not just answer everybody
giving railing for railing.
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No. But contra wise, blessing.
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When we choose that, we stop their wrath.
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It's really powerful.
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Proverbs 16:23 says,
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Proverbs 16:23 says - the heart, the heart
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of the wise teaches his mouth
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and adds learning to his lips.
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The heart of the wise.
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Now it's his teaches his
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I mean, do we come out of
the womb being wise? No.
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Did we come out of the womb wanting to say the right words?
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No. The heart of the wise teaches.
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Our mouth has to be taught.
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We have to submit ourselves
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to the training of the
word of God, the training
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of the Holy Spirit when he says maybe you're, you're in
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that place where a railing
is coming against you
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and you're in the place of choice.
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How am I gonna answer?
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Well, the wise study,
they teach their mouth.
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So you say, how should
I answer Holy Spirit
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and the Holy Spirit, he
comes in like that teacher.
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And he says, don't say that.
Maybe don't say anything.
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Maybe he'll say, ask
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that person if you could
just be excused for a moment
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and you go and you control your emotions
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and you come back to that
place, that that conflict
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and you give that soft answer
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that turns away their wrath.
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Oh friends, God's given
us so much equipment
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to turn away wrath, to turn away strife.
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We don't have to get into strifefull arguments
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because Jesus lives on the inside of us
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and he made those choices all the time
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to turn away wrath and give a soft answer.
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It's really powerful. Look at 16:24.
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Proverbs 16:24.
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Pleasant words are like
a honeycomb, sweetness
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to the soul and health to the bones.
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When you choose to give pleasant words,
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I don't know about you,
but I like a honeycomb.
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I like to get that honeycomb
and that crunchiness
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and all that sweetness
that's in that honeycomb.
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I like it a lot.
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Well, pleasant words are like a
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honeycomb. Pleasant words cause people
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wanna be around you.
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Pleasant words cause people
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to be relaxed in your presence.
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Pleasant words cause people
to want to know what you have
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to say because they're not afraid of you.
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They're not intimidated by you,
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but they are embraced by you.
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And pleasant words will cause health.
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Is that amazing? Is that amazing?
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Your words have so much power.
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We started this teaching talking about
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how powerful our words are that
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that everything was created by words.
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But then none
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of us received salvation without
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something coming out of our mouth,
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even if it's one word.
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And now we see our words are so powerful
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that they can turn away wrath.
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They can cause health in us.
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They can cause health in somebody else.
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They can bring sweetness
to somebody's soul.
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Now I want to show you some scripture.
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And honestly ladies,
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these scriptures have really
helped me in my marriage
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and I've been corrected
by them many times.
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So the first one is Proverbs 19
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and it's verse 13, and it's the 2nd part of the verse.
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And it says,
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and the contentions of a wife
are a continual dripping.
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Oh my. So ladies, when
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we decide that we want
to correct our husband or
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or we're not sure they hurt us.
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So after the 25th time,
we say it one more time
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and we're just not sure.
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Well, at that point, ladies,
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we are not being a blessing.
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Have you ever had a dripping faucet?
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What did you wanna do
with that dripping faucet?
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You wanted to turn it off?
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Well, that's what happens
with our husbands.
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When you
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and I, maybe from time to
time we decide it's time
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to correct or time to teach,
time to direct our husband,
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but we do it over and over and over again.
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And maybe we think we're
just gonna drop gentle words
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and then another gentle word
and then another gentle word,
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and then 10 more gentle words.
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And by that time, we
are a dripping faucet.
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And anyone who has a dripping faucet wants
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to turn it off.
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We're almost out of time.
There's another scripture.
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Just just let me tell you this one.
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It says, it's better
to dwell in the corner
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of a house top than in a house shared
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with a contentious woman.
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Ladies, we want our husband to want us
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to be in the house
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and that he doesn't want to
escape by being on the roof.
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So ladies, we've got
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to guard our mouths
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and teach our mouths, be wise,
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control ourselves.
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Give that soft answer that turns away
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wrath. Oh, I've enjoyed being with you.
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Thank you so much for hearing me talk
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to you about our mouths
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and how when we choose our
words, we watch our words.
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We're gonna learn to
love one another better.
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So stay with me and I'm coming right back
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and we're gonna pray together.
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And Father, right now, I
just pray for my friend
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and Lord, you said that
we through the power
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of the Holy Spirit, we
can control our mouth.
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And Father, I just thank
you Lord for your power
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that's inside of us.
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I thank you, father in the
name of Jesus. Right now,
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the power of the Spirit is touching somebody
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and you've had this disease
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sores on your mouth
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and the Holy Spirit, he's
touching you right now.
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Just receive that healing,
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miracle working power.
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I thank you Father.
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I give you all the praise in Jesus' name,
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but we're outta time.
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Pray this prayer with me right now - Lord,
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I repent of my sin and
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and Lord. Wash away my sin
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