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This program is made
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of the God called partners
of Renner Ministries.
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Hello friends.
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My name is Denise Renner
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and I welcome you to my program today.
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Today we are going to talk about
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how we can love others better.
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And this program today is going
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to be concentrated on
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God's order.
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And you say, well, why would
God's order help us love
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people better?
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Well, you're gonna see,
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and I wanna show you,
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I just brought a little
flower on this program today
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because God's order is
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so magnificent.
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If you could see the
tiny, tiny little details
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of this flower, God took so much time
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and genius to make
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and it's all ordered.
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And the reason I am emphasizing this is
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because what I'm gonna
speak to you about is
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how we can love others better.
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And God has an order
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and you're gonna see it's
really important today.
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And I wanna offer you my 10 part video
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Well, I want you to stay with me
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'cause I'm gonna come right back
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and we are gonna talk about
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how important God's order is
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to loving others better.
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So friend, I want
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And I wanted to share with
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a powerful testimony from this little book, The Gift
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of Forgiveness.
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It says - Today I read your book, The Gift of Forgiveness,
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and was set free from bitterness and my tormentors.
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You instructed me so gently and lovingly on forgiveness,
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I could not build an offense to this message.
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Then it says this morning I prayed
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to be set free from tormentors: robbing me of sleep
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and invading my thoughts,
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I chose to read your book
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because I struggled with
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As I read your book,
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I realized there were
multiple offenders I was
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refusing to forgive.
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My heart was open to learn more of
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what the Holy Spirit
wanted to say to me today
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through your book. The Way You delivered the truth
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of God's word, had me praising God
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as I was turning every page. My heart is filled
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with gratitude and I am free.
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So I wanted to read you that testimony
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and I want you to call us
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and let us know that you want this book
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and Gift of Forgiveness are free to you.
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Just let us know.
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We're talking about God's order. Now,
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God's order has to be very important
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because we see God's order in everything in
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the whole universe.
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You can look at this flower
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and you can see the the intricacy of it,
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the delicateness of it.
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It is it,
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it is completely in order.
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God's order is all over the universe.
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We know that if the sun was
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what just a little bit closer
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to the earth, we would burn up.
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Or if the sun was just a little bit farther from the earth,
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we would freeze.
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God has an amazing design
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and order.
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And you say, well, how
is God's order going
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to help me love people better?
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Well, I'm going to show you
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because God definitely has an order.
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And one of the first
things in God's order is
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that we appreciate one another
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and we can't say to each other,
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I don't need you.
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And you're gonna see that in, you're gonna see
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that in 1 Corinthians.
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And we go to 1 Corinthians 12
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and is talking about the
order in the body of Christ.
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And you know, I've seen that most people,
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they take this scripture
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and they just say, oh,
well, okay, I understand.
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I understand what you're saying.
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Well friend as I was studying this
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I saw this as God's order.
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I saw that our attitude to one another,
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that we appreciate one
another, we value one another
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is very important.
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It's first on the list in God's order
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to have order in the body of Christ.
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So let, let me read to you 1st Corinthians 4:
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11.
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And it says - But one
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of the same spirit works all these things
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distributing to each one individually
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as he wills.
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This order is not what you and I decided.
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This order is what he decided.
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He's the one who put the gifts
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and the callings, your talents the way
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you're wired to serve people
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or work your gifts the way you think,
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it's the way he chose. It's not the way you chose.
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I know for myself, I
didn't choose for myself
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that I would just want
to pray for the sick
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or I would want to witness to people.
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When I got baptized in the Holy Spirit,
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that was the gifting that was inside of me.
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I didn't know it. It was God's will.
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There are things in you that it's, it's
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how you are made.
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God made you that way.
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And in God's order, we
need to accept one another
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and we also need to accept ourselves
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and not try to be like anybody else.
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In verse, I want you to look also at verse 12.
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As the body is one and has many members,
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but all the members of
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that one body being many are one body,
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so also is Christ.
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So in the body of Christ, there are many members,
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we're all different.
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Every one of us are different.
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If we were to look at this flower again,
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you would see all kinds
of different attributes
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to this flower.
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But all of the attributes in this flower
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make this a flower.
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Well, all the attributes
in the body of Christ
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cause us to be the body of Christ.
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But where many different members - we're not the same.
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So in this order I'm talking
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to you about is valuing and
appreciating one another.
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So now look at verse 13.
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It says, for by one spirit
we were all baptized into
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one body.
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The scripture is emphasizing that we're one:
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we are one body, we are
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in Christ, whether Jews
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or Greeks, whether slaves are free
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and have all been made
to drink into one spirit.
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So we're very many,
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but yet we're one.
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And for the apostle Paul, for
the Holy Spirit to point out
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that Greeks and Jews were the same
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or slaves or free were the same.
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This is incredible because Jews
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and Greeks - they were enemies.
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A Jew would never want to be a Greek.
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A Greek would never want to be a Jew.
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A slave would never - a slave would wanna be free.
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But a free man would never wanna be a slave.
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But in God's body,
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we cannot do without each other.
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And he has made us one.
So look at verse 14.
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For in fact the body is not one
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member, but many.
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If the foot say,
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because I am not a hand, I am not
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of the body, it is
therefore not of the body.
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Can the foot say,
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because I'm not a hand,
I'm not of the body.
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Can the foot say, okay, I
want everybody to be a foot
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because I don't like the hand.
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And so this is a body, this is one,
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and we're all gonna be a foot.
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No - the foot cannot say to the hand,
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I don't need you.
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The hand cannot say to the
foot, I don't need you.
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Look at the next verse.
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If the foot should say -
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Because I'm not a hand I am not of the body,
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is it therefore not of the body?
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And if the ears should say -
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because I am not an eye,
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I am not of the body, is it
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therefore not of the body?
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So if I'm not like you, does
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that mean I'm I'm not like the body.
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The hand and the foot are very different.
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The hand - we put jewelry on it.
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Some women do their fingernails.
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I mean people see your hands.
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But the foot, the foot not,
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it has a shoe or a sock
on it most of the time.
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And nobody sees your foot.
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But can the foot say,
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because you don't see me very much,
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I'm not in the body; I'm not as visible as you.
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I'm not in the body. My
portion's not so important.
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I'm not like the hand who's
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so very visible. Friend,
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we can't put ourselves down like that.
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The body cannot do without the foot -
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can't do without the hand either.
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But the body, the hand can't say
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to the foot, I don't need you.
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And the foot can't say to
the hand, I don't need you.
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What would you want to
be without your foot
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or your hand?
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We are so important to one another.
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Look at verse 16. And
if the ear should say,
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because I am not an eye,
I am not of the body,
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is it therefore not of the body?
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Just because the ear is not seen so much.
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Nobody really talks about your ear.
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But a lot of people can
talk about your eyes.
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Women, they put makeup on their eyes.
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We do all these things to
make our eyes more beautiful.
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People look at people's eyes
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and they say, oh, you
have interesting eyes.
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We talk with their eyes.
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But can the ears say,
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because I'm not an I'm not very important.
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No. Do you see what I'm saying?
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This is God's order.
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God's order was that
everybody was important.
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God's order was,
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you can't diminish the part of the body
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that's not like you.
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In fact, you need that part.
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It goes on to say if the
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where would be the hearing?
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If the whole we're hearing
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where would be the smelling?
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But now God has set the members, each one
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of them in the body just as he pleased.
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This verse is so important.
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This is God's order.
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But now God has set the members,
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each one of them in the body just
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as he pleased. Friend,
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we can't say because I'm not an eye
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I am not important: because I'm not a hand,
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I'm not important or
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because I'm an ear, I
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because I'm a foot, I don't need by hand.
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and we need one another's gifts.
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So what am I saying to you about order? In God's order,
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we value one another.
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Let me give you an example of husband
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and wife. Husbands and wives,
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they're very different.
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A husband can be strong and
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and authority and have all this strength.
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And the woman, she's more
like this delicate flower.
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She's caring about the details.
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She cares about the feelings of others.
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She notices things about her children
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that her husband don't even notice.
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She notices things about decoration
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that her husband doesn't even see - all different.
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But should the wife say,
I don't need my husband.
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I could do this all myself.
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Should the husband say, I don't need you.
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I don't need your gifts. I'm strong.
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No, God's order is
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that we need one another.
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That we value one another.
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Oh friend, I hope you're getting this
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because this is such an important rule.
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We see from God that we are
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to value one another no
matter how different we are.
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I know a couple here in Moscow
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and she is an amazing administrator.
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I mean, she can just get everybody in line.
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She can organize anything
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and she just does it all so smoothly.
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Her husband,
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he's got this gentle pastoral heart.
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He cares about people.
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He's very good with the word of God
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and explaining things.
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She's not anything like that.
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Could she say to her husband,
Hey, I don't need you.
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I can tell you what to do. I'm organized.
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I'm an administrator in this
family. I don't need you.
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Can the husband say, I don't need her.
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I'm strong. I've got this.
I have a tender heart.
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No, he needs her gifts
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and she needs his gifts.
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It's God's order. What am I saying?
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No.1: that we appreciate one another,
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that we value one another in the body of Christ.
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God values us.
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God values use us so much
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that this is the way he made us.
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My husband, he's so amazing.
He's an amazing leader.
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He is an amazing teacher.
Amazing, amazing teacher.
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He's so smart. He knows
the Greek language.
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I'm not that kind of person.
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I just, I wanna minister to women a lot.
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I care a lot about their feelings.
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I care about - I want to see the sick heal.
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Sometimes I do see the sick hilled.
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Sometimes I do get to see somebody saved.
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I'm just different than my husband.
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Can I say I'm not as good as my husband
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because I'm not like him?
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Can he say, oh, well I need to
be more like Denise. I'm not.
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I'm not as good as she is.
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No, because God made us.
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It was God. It wasn't you.
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It, I just read that
verse to you where it says
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that it was God.
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It was God who did it.
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But now God has set the members, each one
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of them in the body just as he pleases.
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It's pleasing to God how he made you.
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It's pleasing to God, how he
made your friend and the gifts
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and callings that are
in them, or the gifts
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and callings that are in
your husbands or the gifts
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and callings that are in your child.
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Just because they're not
like you doesn't mean
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that you don't need them. In God's order,
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we are called to value,
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appreciate, and esteem one another.
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What if in marriage, instead
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of resenting one another
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from this teaching, we said, I need
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to value you.
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You are part of the body of Christ.
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What if your husband isn't saved?
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What if your wife isn't saved?
You still need to value them.
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God made them.
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God put these things in them
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and you can take time to appreciate them.
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A lot of times, friend, we are
thinking, instead of valuing
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that person, we're thinking,
what can that person do for me?
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But when we get in God's order, which is
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to value one another, No.1:
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then our mind says, you're so valuable.
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God made you. God put those things in you.
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You are so valuable.
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I need to show my appreciation to you.
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I value you.
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I appreciate you. Friend,
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when we do that,
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we are getting in God's order.
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God's order is so important.
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One last thing, just to show you God's order. In John,
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it's John 20.
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And this verse spoke to
me so many years ago about
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how God cares about order.
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Because at that time I wasn't a very orderly person.
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I mean about my things. But look at this.
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Look what Jesus did. So Jesus
had risen from the dead.
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And when Simon Peter came in
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and saw the tomb, he saw this -
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And the handkerchief that had been around his head,
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not lying with the linen cloths,
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but was folded together in a place
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by itself.
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Jesus didn't just in a rush,
just take the headdress off
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of his of his head and
throw it over to the side.
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It was folded.
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How important is order to God?
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Very. And his order for you
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and I for us to love one another better
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is that we esteem exactly the way
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that God made each other.
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Well stay with me 'cause
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Father, I thank you Lord
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that you gave us your order
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and you help us to love one another better
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by steaming each other.
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I pray, Lord, we do this in Jesus' name - Amen.
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Well, I love you and I'll
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If you've never received
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Pray this prayer with me right now - Lord,
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I repent of my sin and receive you as my Savior
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and Lord. Wash away my sin
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and make me completely new.
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I thank you that my sin is removed
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and Satan no longer has any
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I faithfully promise that
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for the rest of my life.
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Amen.
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