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of the God called partners
of Renner Ministries.

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Get ready for a teaching
that feeds your spirit

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and your mind where the
word is the anchor in

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uncertain times

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and doctrine doesn't bend to culture.

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We keep it simple,

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but dive deep revealing a
truth that strengthens us,

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a love that emboldens,

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and a mission that touches the world.

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Let's join Rick Renner.

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<v ->Welcome to today's program.</v>

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My name is Rick Renner

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and I've been sitting here
just waiting for this moment

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so me

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and Denise can both share

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with you something very
important we've learned

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about marriage.

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<v ->And I'm so glad to be here</v>

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and talk about how you
can have a happy marriage.

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<v ->Denise, you look so pretty.</v>
<v ->Thanks Rick.</v>

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<v ->Thank you for being with me.</v>
<v ->Thank you.</v>

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<v ->This week Denise and I are
celebrating our 44th wedding</v>

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anniversary on Friday - 44 years.

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<v ->44 years.</v>
<v ->Denise.</v>

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<v ->Yes, Rick.</v>

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<v ->Hey, we're gonna live a long time.</v>

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We're gonna, we're gonna
make it to a very golden age.

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<v ->Golden</v>
<v ->Amen.</v>

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But we want you to order the whole series,

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which is called, How to Have a Happy Marriage.

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And you have to have a
happy marriage to be able

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to talk about this.

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And by the way, along the the
road of life, there's lots

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of bumps, but you can get past the bumps

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and you can walk in
peace, walk in the spirit,

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and you can have a happy marriage.

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And we have one. So we're
sharing this week some

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things that we've learned.

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And we want you to get this series

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that comes with the study guide.

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And we want you to get Denise's book,

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which is called Who
Stole Cinderella, the Art

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of Happily Ever After.

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It is just a wonderful, wonderful book.

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I've read it from cover to cover,

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and we want you to order the RIV

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of 1st and 2nd Peter.

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And today we're gonna
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bit from this.

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But you can order all these
things by going online

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or just give us a call.

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And by the way, we wanna pray for you.

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So when you reach out
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to pray for you.

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Call the number on the screen

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and please write that number down.

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Keep it nearby so

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that if you ever find
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where you wish somebody
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with you, you know who to call.

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Call us because we want to pray with you.

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And we will pray and
pray and pray with you.

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And we will believe for God

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to do something wonderful in your life.

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And we really believe that he will.

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But today we're gonna talk about - are you ready -

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Shutting The Door to Strife.

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<v ->Yes. - And I'm gonna tell
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When Denise and I were first married,

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very soon we found ourself
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United States in a tiny car.

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Denise, was it tiny?

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<v ->Tiny, little Isuzu. - It</v>

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was a little Isuzu. I-Mark.

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<v ->I-Mark. - It was tiny, tiny.</v>

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And we were starting our
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And we were traveling hours
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and hours across the United States.

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The Lord had given me a
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and told me to go on a
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<v ->Yeah, - I saw a ring of fire
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of the United States.

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And the Lord said to me, follow the fire.

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So that's what we did.

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So we drove up north
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Then we turned West and we
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and Idaho and Washington state
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That's how our ministry began.

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to the center part of the States.

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But we were traveling with me

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and Denise, Paul was in the backseat.

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<v ->He's two,</v>
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And Philip had just been born.

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<v ->Yes,</v>
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<v ->Six weeks old.</v>

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<v ->That's back in the days
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So Denise had Phillip on her lap. Paul was in the back seat.

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And Paul never wanted
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Denise, am I telling the truth?

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<v ->Oh, that's the truth. We had
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that car seat over and over and over

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I mean, it was so bad that
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get out, put Paul back in the car seat.

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He just refused to stay in the car seat.

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So here we're driving down the road.

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Phillip is on Denise's lap. He is crying.

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Paul is in the backseat, refusing to be in the car seat.

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that Denise and I are nearly joined at the hip.

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<v ->Oh yeah. And those little tiny cars.</v>

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where my feet were was
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I mean the luggage was leaning here.

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We're driving down the road. Yep.

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plus all of our luggage. It
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<v ->And Rick, you were, I gotta
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because every time we
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<v ->And Rick, every time would
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roof of the car, unstrap it of course,

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and then put it right back
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<v ->Day after day after day after day,</v>

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<v ->He row.</v>

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<v ->And the ministry was just
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We didn't have much money.
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I'm believing God for the gas,
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and to pay for all the hotels,
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because Paul was not in the car seat.

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Philip was crying and it was just tense.

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and I, who really loved each
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of strife would come between us.

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That's just not who we are.
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Denise, what would happen?

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<v ->The kids would get sick.</v>

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<v ->The kids would get sick.</v>

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and we realized, you know what?

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Every time we get into strife,
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that strife was a door for the enemy.

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Now I'm gonna give you a verse in Ephesians

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it says - Neither give place to the devil.

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somehow it opened a door;
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and the devil would begin to get in

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of piping hot coffee
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and it melted all of the
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to the hospital every single day,

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to do was find out where
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Because every day they
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They had to treat his hand
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to the devil.

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And I wanna read a verse to
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and every evil work. And the word evil,

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here's the Greek word, phaulos.

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It describes foul things.

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And so Denise made, and I made a decision,

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and here's what it was -
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no strife policy.

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You said, well, have you
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Actually we have. There have been very few moments in our 44

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years of ministry that we've had strife.

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You say, well, how do you
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marriage or entering your home?

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It is a decision. Strife is an emotion.

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You know, I'm gonna make a statement.

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I don't want you to
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Emotions are expensive

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and you have to decide how
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And if you spend your emotions on strife,

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it's gonna open the door
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You can choose to reserve those emotions

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Emotions are in your control.

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And the devil works through emotions

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that are not under control.

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That's how strife gets at.

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Now you can control yourself
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I know you can, because when you

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and your spouse are in a big fit

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and you're fighting with each other,

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and suddenly the phone rings,

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you change your behavior immediately.

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Hello. Well, hey, I'm
doing great. How are you?

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You know, you're not doing great at all,

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but you're able to pull it under control

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because you choose to.

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You choose to. And Denise

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and I made a decision

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that we're gonna have a no strife policy.

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And so when our kids were growing up,

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they didn't see strife in our home

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because we had a no strife policy.

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that we didn't have the
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Of course, strife is a spirit by the way.

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You can feel it when strife comes -

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it tempts you, it lures you.

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You have to say no to it.

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And my friends, if you
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then you won't get into strife.

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and I were tempted to get into strife,

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sometimes we would just say, Hey,

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I need a few minutes by myself.

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You know what? I just need to
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We'd get alone by ourself or take a walk

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or do something to get
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and pull ourself into control.

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you open the door for
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and this was so powerful in our life,

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that we carried the
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and you have a lot of
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for people to have disagreements.

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There's nothing wrong with disagreements,

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but the way you deal with disagreements is very important.

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And strife is never helpful.

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Strife always opens the door for the devil.

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and in our churches, we
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And guess what, Denise? When
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people don't get into strife it.

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It doesn't happen because you
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It requires people to pray.
It requires people to grow up.

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It requires people to discuss things maturely,

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but we don't allow strife in our marriage.

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we don't get into strife with our adult kids

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and we don't allow it in the ministry

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because strife opens a door
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<v ->You know Rick, I'm just
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verse 16 where it says envy, where envy

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and self seeking exist confusion

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and every evil thing are there.

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And strife really comes from self-seeking,

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like how important you are and your rights

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and your boundaries.

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And I'm gonna hold my line

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and I'm gonna show you that I'm right

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and I'm gonna show you that you are wrong.

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And so that opens the door for strife.

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But I just want you to see it.

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Who wants confusion

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or every evil thing?

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So you have to look at
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<v ->It brings destruction.</v>

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<v ->It absolutely brings destruction.</v>

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<v ->And you know, sometimes strife takes place when you get</v>

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involved in a conversation

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and you begin just talking back and forth.

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And the Bible calls it railing for railing.

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So I want to refer to 1 Peter 3:9.

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And I'm referring to some of my work in the RIV of 1st

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Peter. Listen

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to this; in 1 Peter 3:9.

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Now Peter has been addressing
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He's continuing to
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including husbands and wives.

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listen to what he says -

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Not rendering evil for evil

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or railing for railing, but contrariwise, blessing,

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knowing that you are there unto called

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that you should inherit a blessing.

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listen to this.

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It means you absolutely must not try to get even

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to get revenge or to pay someone back for what he did to you

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or to someone else.

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Don't try to settle the score by repaying.

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That is a literal interpretation of this verse. Wow!

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And it says evil for evil.

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The word evil is a form of the Greek word kakos,

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which describes what is bad, evil,

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malicious rotten attitudes and behaviors.

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for is the Greek word anti - means in exchange for.

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And if you put all this together,

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here's the RIV of this verse.

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Are you ready for this, Denise?

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This is the RIV of 1 Peter 3:9.

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You absolutely must not try
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or to pay someone back for what he did

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to you or to someone else.

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I think of the times in
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before they're supposed to be
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but they're already thinking about how they're gonna respond

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to what the person is saying.

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They're not really listening

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because they're thinking
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that statement back.

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And Peter says, you absolutely
must not try to get even

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to get revenge or to pay
someone back for what he did

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to your to someone else.

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Don't try to settle the score
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evil, malicious rotten attitudes

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and behaviors in exchange for bad, evil,

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malicious rotten attitudes and behaviors.

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debased, harassed, humiliated,
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or someone else, do not
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to pay them back with the
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That is a literal interpretation.

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Now, Denise, if we stopped
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for you to work on for a long time.

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<v ->Blessing. Blessing,</v>

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<v ->Knowing that you are there unto called</v>

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that you should inherit a blessing.

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And the RIV translates it like this.

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But on the contrary, into
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of the spectrum - I love that -

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you must instead speak
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response to them.

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For it is for this very purpose

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that you have been prestigious
called that you should be the

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recipients of blessing.

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And even in your marriage,
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to be the recipient of a blessing.

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And so here's what Denise and I do.

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If we're ever tempted to get into strife,

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I will intentionally just
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you're such a blessing to me.

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Or she'll say, well, here's
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I love you. We make a decision contrary wise

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to speak a blessing.

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to speak a blessing.

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Blessings have to be verbalized.

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So rather than pay each other back

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and say, well, I know how
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Well, I'll tell you what,
that's what you think.

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But wait until you're quite,

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I'm gonna tell you what I think about.

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Rather than pay each other back

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and just get into a dragged out,

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prolonged conversation,

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that's not gonna take you anywhere positive,

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just put on the brakes

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<v ->And remember that you're called to this.</v>

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There's a calling to to bless one another

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that's on the inside of your spirit.

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And on the inside of your
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place for you.

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It is from that spirit of
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of your heart that it says in Romans 5,

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that when you got born again,

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it was shed abroad over
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From that place, you have the power

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to look at your spouse,

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if they said something ugly and say, I love you.

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You're such a blessing to me.

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And the Bible says in Proverbs 15:1, it says

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that a soft answer will turn away wrath.

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Or what's a soft answer?

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A soft answer comes from a
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not a place that I'm gonna get you back,

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but a place that I, that
I'm gonna bless you.

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<v ->And Ecclesiastes 3 says, there is a time to speak</v>

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and there's a time not to speak.

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There's a time to embrace

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and there's a time to
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And sometimes when you're
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it's okay to say, you know what?

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This is a time for us to be quiet.

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This is a time for us to
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We just need a little distance

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and calm down, do whatever you have to do

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to maintain peace in your home.

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Because when you open a door

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to the devil, he comes in.

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He really does.

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And in fact, in Peter 5:7,

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Peter says, be sober,

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be vigilant because your adversary - the devil -

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walks about looking for victims to pounce on and to devour.

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And one of the entryways that

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that evil enemy finds entrance is

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through strife - is through strife.

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And that's very often
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that's when people get sick.

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That's when things begin to go haywire.

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If you look at it and really study it,

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very often bad things happen

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around an event of strife.

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<v ->And you know, Rick, if
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and seek God, he'll show
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that causes you to be resentful, to be

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so self-seeking

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'cause that's what James said.

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It says it comes from self-seeking.

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Well, why are we so self-seeking?

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Well, the root of that is fear.

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But God, he's given us that love.

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And from that love on the inside, we are,

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as we just read, we are
called to bless one another

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<v ->And to inherit a blessing</v>
<v ->And to inherit a blessing.</v>

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<v ->And I want to tell you something else.</v>

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When you're tempted to say something ugly

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and to get into strife,
you need to remember

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who you're talking to.

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You're talking to the person
that God called you to.

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You're talking to a person that's forgiven you of a lot

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of things, a person that has overlooked a lot of things.

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And maybe it's just a moment for you to give somebody grace.

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And that's what we're gonna talk about in the next episode,

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the power of forgiveness in marriage.

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It's gonna really be good.

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But Denise, we're out of
time that this has been good

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and we hope it's been a help to you,

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but we'll be back in just a moment

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and we're gonna pray for you.

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Does our family have very
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Well, we do, but they're a little

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different than other people.

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For example, 4th of July we lost that tradition

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because that's an American
holiday and we live in Russia.

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They don't celebrate the
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In fact, the 4th of July is just a work day.

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So we kinda lost that one over the years.

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But we do celebrate
Thanksgiving even though

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that is not a Russian tradition.

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And in fact, when you guys
all got married, we had

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to explain to your wives
what Thanksgiving was

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because they had never heard of it.

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But we have retained Thanksgiving.

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We have retained Christmas,
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that the western world celebrates.

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The western world celebrates
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but Russian Christmas is on January the 7th.

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We do celebrate Easter, but it's on a different calendar.

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So we celebrate usually 2-weeks later than Western Easter.

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But we do celebrate Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter.

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Those are our primary family traditions.

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<v ->Want a marriage filled
with peace, purpose, and joy.</v>

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In this new series, How to Have a Happy Marriage, Rick

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and Denise Renner share biblical wisdom

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and real life lessons

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that have helped them
strengthen their relationship

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with one another, overcome strife

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and experience the joy of
a God-centered marriage.

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In this 5-part series, you will learn: How

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to find purpose in your marriage - How to eliminate strife

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In addition to this teaching series,

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&amp; 2nd Peter - order today.

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Don't miss this special offer
of the bundle of the series,

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How to Have a Happy Marriage
starting at just $11,

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and the books, Who Stole Cinderella, for $17,

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and the RIV of 1st &amp; 2nd Peter, for $38.

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Call the number on your screen

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or go online to renner.org to
order; call or go online now.

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<v ->Hey, this is Rick Renner</v>

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and I'm standing inside the Partner Care

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Department of our ministry.

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And this is where the action takes place.

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Thousands of phone calls every day

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and every month come into
this place from people

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reaching out to us.

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And this is my precious
mother who is in heaven

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and she established this
part of the ministry.

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But these are the principles we are dedicated

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to - to feed the entire flock

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God has brought to this ministry,

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to strengthen those who
are diseased in any area

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of their lives, to bring
healing to those in need

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of any type of healing, to bind up those

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who are broken in any area of their lives,

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to bring back those that
have been driven away,

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to reach the lost, and to take the gospel

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and the trusted teaching
of the Bible to the ends

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of the earth, to shepherd
the flock that God has caused

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to hear the voice of this ministry

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and to help them grow in
their relationship with Christ

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and become powerful
Bible-based believers equipped

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for these last days.

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And to thank and minister

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to partners whose sacrificial
gifts have enabled this

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ministry to fulfill its
call around the world.

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And we are very committed to these principles.

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And if you're a partner, you know,

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we're very serious about that.

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But hey, right now we're trying to pay off this facility

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and those who are part

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of the Ministry Expansion Project are helping us to do that.

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And if you're a part already, thank you.

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But if you're not part of that
giving team yet, we need you.

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So would you please become a part

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of the Ministry Expansion Giving Team

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so we can pay off this facility

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and then keep taking the gospel to the ends of the earth

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where people really are
crying out for someone

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to bring them trusted
teaching of the Bible.

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And that's us, that's our call

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and my friends together, we can do this.

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And I want to say thank you so much.

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Well this has really been
a great program today.

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And Denise, you have something to say.

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<v ->There's a couple and you're listening</v>

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and you're even contemplating
divorce. Right now,

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the Holy Spirit is so
there upon both of you

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to recognize the union
that you have together,

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the covenant you made together before God

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and with each other.

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And that your marriage is not, is not

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just something to throw away.

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Your marriage is precious

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and to reevaluate what you are thinking

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and come together

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and recognize the good things in one another.

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<v ->Amen. Thank you, Denise.</v>

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That was a word of knowledge for somebody,

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so take it and act on it.

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But hey, we're almost out of time.

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We want you to get this series called How

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to Have a Happy Marriage.

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It comes with a study guide

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and we want you

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to get Denise's book called -
Who Stole Cinderella.

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And we want you to be sure to order the RIV of 1st

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&amp; 2nd Peter.

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But Denise when one we come back tomorrow,

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we're gonna talk about the power of forgiveness in marriage

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because forgiveness plays a very big role in marriage.

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It's gonna really be good.

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But Father, we thank
you in the name of Jesus

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that today you've allowed
us to be together.

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And thank you that you've
given us the power to say no

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to a spirit of strife.

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<v ->Amen.</v>
<v ->And I pray for every person</v>

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and every couple listening right now

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that you would make a decision

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to have a no strife policy in your life.

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You just need to make that decision.

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And the Holy Spirit will empower you to make it

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and he'll help you fulfill it,

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and he'll teach you how to
speak about things maturely

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and not in a spirit of strife.

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And we thank you for this in Jesus name - Amen.

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Well, thank you for being
with us. Don't miss tomorrow.

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It's gonna be good. But until then,

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remember Ecclesiastes 8:4,

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it says, "Where the word of the king, the king is

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where there is power."

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If you've never received
Jesus as your Savior

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and Lord, now is the time for
you to experience a new life

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Jesus has to give you.

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Pray this prayer with me right now - Lord,

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I repented my sin and receive you as my Savior

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and Lord. Wash away my sin

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and make me completely new.

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I thank you that my sin is removed

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and Satan no longer has any
right to lay claim on me.

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I faithfully promise that I will serve you as my Lord

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for the rest of my life.

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Amen. Renner Ministries
is proclaiming the gospel

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of Jesus Christ through
every available media avenue

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to the uttermost parts of the Earth.

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Discover the many ways you can
help us make a difference in

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lives around the world with the word of God.

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We invite you to partner with
us in teaching, strengthening

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and rescuing lives for the glory of God.

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Together we can make a difference

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that will last throughout eternity.

