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<v ->This program is made
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of the God called partners
of Renner Ministries.

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<v ->Hello friend. My name is Denise Renner,</v>

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and welcome to my program. Today

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I have a big surprise for you because Rick

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and I, we made our program together

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and it's in his studio and
you are just gonna love it.

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And we're talking about How

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to Have a Happy Marriage.

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All these are such great programs

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with wonderful content,

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and I don't want you
to miss a second of it.

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But I want to begin with this scripture

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because, oh my, this scripture says

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that two are better than one

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because they have a good
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For if they fall, one will
lift up the companion.

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But woe to him who is alone when he falls,

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and he has no one to help him up. Again,

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if two lie together, they
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But how can one be warm alone,

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though one may be overpowered by another,

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two can withstand him,

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and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

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Oh, I wanna tell you

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that when we make a covenant
in marriage between husband

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and wife and our covenant with God,

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that three-cord union is not

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easily broken.

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And that's what we're
gonna share with you today.

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That the union that you
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guarded, it's precious.

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It's not something that
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or taken for granted,

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but it is precious that
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with that person.

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And you need to guard
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and keep it as precious.

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Oh, there may be struggles,
there may be trials,

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there may be storms,

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but I just read to you that a three stranded cord -

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you, your spouse

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and God - is not easily broken.

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And if you need prayer, please
let us know how we can pray

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for you, because we're
there to pray for you.

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And if God's doing something
special in your life

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through these programs, let us know.

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Oh, thank you so much
for being with me today.

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I enjoy all your responses
and stay with me.

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And I'm coming right back

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and I'm going to, you're
gonna go to Rick's studio

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and we're gonna talk about
how to have a happy marriage.

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<v ->It's time for big miracles
and changes in your life.</v>

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Join Denise Renner

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and dive into the study of God's
word, which has great power

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to strengthen faith, inspire,
change, heal physically

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and spiritually, and most importantly,

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help you learn about the power

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of Christ Jesus living in you. It's

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Time with Denise Renner.

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Welcome to today's program.

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My name is Rick Renner,

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and I'm so excited that Denise is with me.

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<v ->Thank you, Rick. I am so
excited about this show.</v>

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<v ->Denise, you look really
pretty in that jacket.</v>

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<v ->Thank you, Rick,</v>
<v ->Who got you that jacket,</v>

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<v ->My wonderful husband.</v>

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<v ->I bought you that jacket in Istanbul.</v>

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<v ->He did.</v>

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<v ->And you are really
pretty on that jacket.</v>

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<v ->Thanks, Rick, - But you are prettier than your jacket.</v>

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You're so elegant.

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<v ->Oh, thank you Rick.</v>
<v ->And I'm so glad</v>

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that you're with me today.

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And this week, every day this week, Denise

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and I are gonna be talking about how

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to have a happy marriage.

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And by the way, you have
to have a happy marriage

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to be able to talk about that.

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And Denise, we have a very happy marriage.

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<v ->We do Rick,</v>
<v ->And we've had a happy</v>

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marriage from the beginning.

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But there are things you have to do

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to keep a happy marriage.

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So that's what we're gonna be

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talking to you about this week.

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But please get the five
part series called How

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to Have a Happy Marriage,
comes with a study guide.

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And Denise, look at this.

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For the first time ever,
we're offering the RIVA, first

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and second Peter.

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Oh, yay. Yay. That's awesome.
We've waited and waited.

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And now the second volume
is a, a parallel study Bible

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for people of faith, the
Rener interpretive version,

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a conceptual interpretation
of the Greek New Testament

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with footnotes and commentary
first and second Peter.

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So if you got the first
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and Jude, now you can
get volume number two.

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And this week I'm gonna be
sharing some things from first

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Peter chapter three about
marriage from the RIV.

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Oh. So that's why we're offering it.

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<v ->Well, can I see it?</v>
<v ->You sure can.</v>

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<v ->Thank you. Because
it's really beautiful.</v>

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<v ->Isn't that beautiful? But
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that you are with us,

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and if you need prayer that
would you please reach out

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to us, Denise, that's, we
really pray for people, don't

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we?

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We certainly do. And we see
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and we see answers to prayers
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In fact, we have so many
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to us after people called us for prayer.

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So if you need prayer, you
call the number on the screen

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and write the number down.

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Keep that number nearby so

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that if you ever find yourself in a fix

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and you wish that you had
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you can call that number.

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We'll be waiting for you.

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And when you reach out to
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and we will really pray with power.

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We'll pray scripturally,
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chapter five, verse 14
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and Jesus will do what needs to be done.

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But hey, I also wanna say
thank you for being a partner.

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If you're a partner, you're
helping us take the teaching

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of the Bible around the world

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and my friends, I really
mean around the world.

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And if you're not a partner,

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please pray about becoming a partner

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to help us do this ministry.

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And you can become a
partner by going online

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or by giving us a call.

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But today we're gonna
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to Have a Happy Marriage.

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And Denise, I think we should
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<v ->Okay.</v>
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So I'm gonna start, and you
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<v ->I will.</v>
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I decided I would never get married.

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I just wanted to be committed

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but I found myself in a
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Loved that little church.
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Wonderful. And one day
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which was behind me.

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and Denise, you were a
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it's when she was obeying the Lord

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and was singing a prophetic song.

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to time you would sing a
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A team of two was me and Denise.

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and I, the first thing
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of one corridor, went into the room,

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with brain cancer. His name was Frank.

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<v ->Frank, I remember his name too. Rick.</v>

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<v ->And you And I led him to the Lord.</v>

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<v ->Yes. - That was the first
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<v ->Rick,</v>
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<v ->Thank you,</v>
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our relationship was
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<v ->Yes. Born in the gospel,
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<v ->And Denise was very</v>

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passionately pursuing
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Later she auditioned at
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and the New York City Opera.

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I mean, Denise really had a
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of her, but we got married. But

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<v ->Well, let me finish this
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<v ->But before all that happened, I began</v>

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to teach in the church and
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and my gift began to be developed.

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it was the summer break.

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I'd gone back to Tulsa
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I had no interest in Denise.
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And I said, you ought to come
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I did not mean a word of it.

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If I knew she was gonna take me up on it,

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I was just being polite.

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So I went back to Tulsa for the summer

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and the phone rang and it was Denise.

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And she said, Ricky,
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Like you invited me.

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And when I hung the phone
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what am I gonna do with
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What? She actually believed
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and I thought, what am I
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for three days?

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<v ->We went and heard Corrie Ten Boom.</v>

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<v ->We went to hear Corrie Ten Boom. That's right.</v>

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And we sang a lot of hymns together

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because we didn't know each other,

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but we knew a lot of hymns.

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So we would drive and we would sing, sing.

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And then we would talk and she
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And I would talk about my dreams.

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And I found myself saying,
I, I still, to this day,

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I can't believe that I said

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<v ->We were having ice cream.</v>

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<v ->I said, Denise, if you were my wife,</v>

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I would you marry me?

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And she said, well, if God called me

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to be your wife, of course.

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Well, at that time, Denise was
really looking for a husband.

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She, her dream was

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<v ->To marry a preacher,</v>
<v ->To marry a preacher,</v>

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<v ->Not to be an opera singer.</v>

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It was to, I felt a call to the ministry.

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<v ->And here was an, a young preacher.</v>

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And so it looked like the
two of us were put together.

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But I didn't really have
a desire to be married.

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I really had no interest at all.

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In fact, when that question
came outta my mouth, I,

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I just wished I could grab
those words and take 'em back.

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I thought, what in the
world are you saying?

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And before I knew it, I had proposed,

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I wasn't even 20 years old,

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and Denise was a little bit older than me.

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I thought, what in the
world have you done?

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So when the weekend was over,

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I took her back to the turnpike.

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Somebody picked her up, she
went back to the university.

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And for the summer I continued working. My job,

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<v ->I gotta stop ya.</v>

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<v ->Okay, go ahead. - Because at the turnpike, when you in</v>

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that little green car
and you let me out, but

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before I got outta there, I literally

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like heard wedding bells.

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I know that sounds kind of corny,

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but I really did hear wedding

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sounds.

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And at that moment, that's when I knew

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that Ricky was my husband.

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<v ->Well, that summer I
wrote her a lot of letters.</v>

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I'm a writer. And so this is one reason

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that I don't keep a journal,

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because if I kept a journal,

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it would be pages and pages and pages.

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I just don't know how to stop writing

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<v ->For one day.</v>

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It would just be, yeah,
just for one day. One day

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<v ->Probably 10</v>
<v ->Pages. It it was,</v>

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<v ->And then I would edit it</v>

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and re-edit it to make it perfect.

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Exactly. But that summer I
wrote Denise a lot of letters,

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and the Lord began speaking

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to me prophetically about Denise.

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And guess what? I still
have all those early

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documents where the Lord spoke to me.

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I still have them, but
I just could not deal

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with the issue of marriage.

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I was not interested in marriage.

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I was the man that was going to be un-distracted uncommitted

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to marriage, just committed
solely to the Lord,

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<v ->Like the apostle Paul,</v>
<v ->Like the apostle Paul.</v>

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So at the end of the
summer when I went back

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to the university, I just
blew the whole thing off

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as if it never happened.

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And I ignored Denise.

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In fact, I actually said, Denise, can,

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can we just please forget that I proposed?

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Can we just kind of erase that

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and wipe that out and just move on?

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Like we never had that conversation.

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<v ->Yes, you did say that,</v>
<v ->Denise. I really did that.</v>

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<v ->You really did.</v>
<v ->And Denise kind</v>

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of thought I was a jerk.

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And actually what I
did was, it was kind of

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what a jerk would do,
but I was just afraid.

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And I was young. I was young, Denise,

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<v ->That's for sure.</v>

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<v ->I was young and I wasn't, praise God.</v>

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We didn't get married at that moment.

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<v ->Amen.</v>
<v ->I was not ready for that.</v>

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<v ->I wasn't either.</v>
<v ->So several years went by</v>

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and I knew that I was in disobedience.

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I knew that. And during the time

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that I was in disobedience is
when Denise went to New York.

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Okay, Denise, tell that part of the story.

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<v ->Oh, so I went, my,
my teacher was amazing.</v>

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He was a true opera singer. He sang in Europe.

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And he just believed in me
and believed in my voice.

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And so he took me to
the Metropolitan Opera

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and to the New York
City Opera to audition.

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So in the, in at the Metropolitan,

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I sang and they said,

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<v ->Major talent,</v>
<v ->Major talent.</v>

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And then they, they, I, it, they said, impressive tall

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and major talent.

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And so, and they told me
to come back in one year

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and sing for James Levine,

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<v ->Who was the director
of the Metropolitan.</v>

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<v ->Exactly. - But at the New York City Opera,</v>

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you auditioned for Beverly Sills.

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<v ->Yes, I did. And</v>

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so I was in the process of
learning all the arias for

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that particular opera.

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It was, it was Macbeth. And

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<v ->For your audition?</v>

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<v ->Yeah, for my audition.</v>

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And it was the Opera Macbeth from Giuseppe Verdi.

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Well, so I was, I was working
so hard on those arias,

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and I'm telling you, they are difficult,

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very difficult role.

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Working, working, working, working.

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Well, I went to our little church

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that Rick just spoke about,

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and it had become little, it was like 120,

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and now it was like 18 people there.

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And, but I was sitting there

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and the Holy Spirit said
to me, I didn't call you

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to aspire to the Metropolitan Opera,

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but that the praises of God would come out

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of you over this pipe and
give glory and honor to me.

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Well, at that moment, I received that call from the Lord.

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So I changed my whole summer.

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I had a full paid scholarship

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to an opera camp in Europe that summer.

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And I told Rick, of course,

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my teacher was not very happy about this.

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And, and then Rick, and Rick was so sweet

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because he respected my talent.

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And he said, Denise,

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I can't take your quote
unquote voice from the

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world, but he didn't have to

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because the Lord called
me to sing his praises.

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So I told Rick, and then we began to pursue our relationship

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more. - But our relationship was confusing

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because I was on again, off again,

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on again, off again. So finally,

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<v ->Yeah, he proposed one more time.</v>

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<v ->So I proposed again</v>

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and I said, Denise, I'm so sorry

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that I was erratic the first time.

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And Denise cried and cried and cried.

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We were a breakfast,
having breakfast together.

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And I said, Denise, I know

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that God's called you to be my wife.

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Would you please marry me? And we

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<v ->Had to, you said, I want to love you</v>

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as Christ loved the church, love

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<v ->The church.</v>

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So I left that breakfast

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and didn't call her again for a year.

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I got terrified again, just
scared the wits out of me,

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the idea of getting married.

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And finally I ended up in
the hospital very, very sick.

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And I said to the Lord,
what opened the door

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for this sickness?

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And the Lord said - you're disobedience. And I said, what

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disobedience? He said, I told you to marry Denise Roberson.

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He said, I didn't give you the sickness,

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but you've opened the door to the devil

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because you are not in my will.

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When you're not in my will.

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You experience bad things and you're sick

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because you're not doing
what I told you to do.

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And you've opened a door for
this sickness to attack you.

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So right from the hospital in my

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bed You did.

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<v ->I picked up the phone
and I called Denise,</v>

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and I called her just at the right time

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because she was in a
very vulnerable moment

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with another situation.

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And we just connected.

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And finally the day came
when we walked the aisle,

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October 3rd, 1981.

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<v ->Yes. - And Denise, you
were so beautiful that day.</v>

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<v ->Thank you, Rick. You were very handsome.</v>

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I was looking at your
picture the other day.

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<v ->Oh, Denise and Denise sang
to me, and I washed your feet.</v>

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You did I, I got on my knees
with a bucket of water,

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and I committed to the Lord, to you

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and to the body of Christ
that I would serve you

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for the rest of our life.

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And that began our marriage together.

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Now I wanna read a scripture.

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Let's go to Ecclesiastes 4.

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And when you come to Ecclesiastes 4:9,

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it says - Two are better than one.

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I didn't believe that.

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I really thought I was
sufficient by myself,

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but God told me that
you were to be my wife.

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But the truth really is
two are better than one.

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And it goes on to say, because
they have a good reward

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for their labor.

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And when we come back in the next episode,

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we're gonna talk about having
a purpose for your marriage.

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Every marriage needs a purpose.

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And one reason that
marriage is flounder is

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because they just marry each other

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and that's all there is. Well,
eventually that's not enough.

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And people become disappointed.

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They begin to feel frustrated.

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Isn't there more to marriage than this?

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Marriage needs to have a purpose.

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Actually, everything
needs to have a purpose.

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And this verse says,
two are better than one

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because they have a good
reward for their labor.

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And Denise, when I look
at our marriage, Wow, look

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what the Lord has done
through our labor together.

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It is amazing.

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And then verse 10 says, for if they fall,

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the one will lift up his fellow.

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But woe to him that is
alone when he falleth

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for he hath not another to help him up.

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And guess what? This week,
this week, on Friday,

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Denise and I are celebrating
our 44th wedding anniversary.

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And for 44 years we've
been helping each other.

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And when we've stumbled,
we've helped each other up.

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<v ->Amen. And Denise, you've</v>
<v ->Helped me a lot,</v>

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<v ->And you've helped me a lot.</v>

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<v ->Well, I sure pray I have.</v>

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And then verse 11 says
again, if two lie together,

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then they shall have heat.

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But how can one be warm alone? Verse 12.

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And if one prevail against
him, two shall withstand him.

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And it's really true that when
you are united in marriage,

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you have spiritual power
to stand against the enemy.

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And then the next part

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of the verse really became
foundational to our marriage.

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And a threefold cord is not quickly broken: a

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threefold cord.

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So it's not two, it's three.

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A threefold cord is not quickly broken.

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And from the very beginning
of our marriage, Denise

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and I always said to each
other, here are you and me.

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But Jesus is in the middle.

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It's not just you and me,
it's you and me and Jesus.

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And you know Denise, I can
really say God called us together

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because we were not in
pursuit of each other.

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I wasn't in pursuit of
anybody except Jesus.

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And Jesus just revealed
to me that you are my wife

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and you were my partner in ministry.

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And from the very, very beginning,

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God has had a purpose for our lives.

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And from the day we said I
do, 44 years ago this Friday,

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we have really been very focused in

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what God has called us to do.

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<v ->Oh, we have. And</v>

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and Rick, I know there's gonna
be, there's gonna be a lot

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of people in heaven

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because of how God has blessed this team.

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And you know, there's a chemistry

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that God puts together.

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<v ->That's right. - And then God's anointing comes on that,</v>

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that that couple.

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And when you're united,
there's so much you can do

496
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and so much he can do through you.

497
00:22:14.710 --> 00:22:16.660
<v ->And the devil's
against you being united.</v>

498
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He wants to pull you apart.

499
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He wants to make sure that
you never find your purpose

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as a marriage.

501
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But really, when you find
your purpose as a marriage,

502
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it gives you spiritual power
to stand against the enemy.

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And there's a good reward
for your labor together.

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It is just amazing.

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But this week, we're celebrating 44 years of marriage.

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So in this series about How to Have a Happy Marriage,

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we decided that we would tell you

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how our happy marriage began.

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And really, in the first
years of our marriage,

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we never had a word of strife.

511
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We were just happy as could
be in the ministry together.

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Now, eventually life woke up

513
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and we had to learn to
work through some emotions.

514
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We had to learn how to
be nice to each other.

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That's a part of the process.

516
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But when we come back in the next episode,

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we're gonna talk about having
a purpose for your marriage.

518
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Everything needs a purpose,
but we're out of time.

519
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But Denise and I will be
back in just a moment,

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and we're going to pray for you.

521
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How did you meet Denise, my mama?

522
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Well, that story is very interesting

523
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because I didn't really first meet her

524
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I heard her. I'd gone to the university

525
00:23:36.100 --> 00:23:38.470
and I had discovered that
there was a small fellowship

526
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of students that were
filled with the spirit,

527
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and they moved in the gifts of the spirit.

528
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And that's where I wanted to be.

529
00:23:44.500 --> 00:23:47.870
So I came one of those
services one Sunday afternoon,

530
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and I was seated toward the front.

531
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And all of a sudden, from
the back of the room,

532
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someone began to sing a prophecy.

533
00:23:55.760 --> 00:24:00.020
And I remember thinking,
who is that voice?

534
00:24:00.020 --> 00:24:02.660
Because it was so magnificent.

535
00:24:02.660 --> 00:24:06.560
And I turned to see the
voice that was singing.

536
00:24:06.560 --> 00:24:09.710
And that is the first time
I ever saw your mother.

537
00:24:09.710 --> 00:24:12.170
And I actually met her much later.

538
00:24:12.170 --> 00:24:14.000
But my first encounter

539
00:24:14.000 --> 00:24:17.480
with your mother was when she
was singing a prophetic word

540
00:24:17.480 --> 00:24:20.750
in our little fellowship at our University Church.

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<v ->Want a marriage filled
with peace, purpose, and joy?</v>

542
00:24:25.730 --> 00:24:29.540
In this new series, How to Have a Happy Marriage, Rick

543
00:24:29.540 --> 00:24:32.000
and Denise Renner share biblical wisdom

544
00:24:32.000 --> 00:24:33.650
and real life lessons

545
00:24:33.650 --> 00:24:35.810
that have helped them
strengthen their relationship

546
00:24:35.810 --> 00:24:38.360
with one another, overcome strife,

547
00:24:38.360 --> 00:24:42.350
and experience the joy of
a God-centered marriage.

548
00:24:42.350 --> 00:24:45.770
In this 5-part series, you will learn - How

549
00:24:45.770 --> 00:24:49.550
to find purpose in your marriage: How to eliminate strife

550
00:24:49.550 --> 00:24:53.240
and maintain peace: The power of forgiveness:

551
00:24:53.240 --> 00:24:56.240
How to let the Holy Spirit guide your tongue -

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00:24:56.240 --> 00:24:57.440
available in digital

553
00:24:57.440 --> 00:25:01.070
or physical formats, starting at just $11.

554
00:25:01.070 --> 00:25:02.420
This series will equip you

555
00:25:02.420 --> 00:25:06.230
to strengthen your marriage on
a solid biblical foundation.

556
00:25:06.230 --> 00:25:08.390
In addition to this teaching series,

557
00:25:08.390 --> 00:25:11.570
you can order Denise's book, Who Stole Cinderella?

558
00:25:11.570 --> 00:25:13.970
and Rick's book, the RIV of 1st

559
00:25:13.970 --> 00:25:16.130
&amp; 2nd Peter: order today.

560
00:25:16.130 --> 00:25:18.980
Don't miss this special offer
of the bundle of the series,

561
00:25:18.980 --> 00:25:22.520
How to have a Happy Marriage, starting at just $11,

562
00:25:22.520 --> 00:25:26.540
and the books, Who Stole Cinderella, for $17.

563
00:25:26.540 --> 00:25:30.290
And the RIV of 1st &amp; 2nd Peter for $38.

564
00:25:31.250 --> 00:25:32.900
Call the number on your screen

565
00:25:32.900 --> 00:25:35.630
or go online to renner.org to order.

566
00:25:35.630 --> 00:25:37.790
Call or go online now.

567
00:25:47.660 --> 00:25:48.770
<v ->Well, today, Denise</v>

568
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and I have told you how our
marriage first got started.

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00:25:52.820 --> 00:25:54.740
It's quite an amazing story. By the way,

570
00:25:54.740 --> 00:25:58.550
we also talk about it in our
autobiography called Unlikely.

571
00:25:58.550 --> 00:26:00.740
Our Marriage is Quite Unlikely.

572
00:26:00.740 --> 00:26:04.610
But you know, God just
loves to do unlikely things.

573
00:26:04.610 --> 00:26:07.430
But please order the whole series, which is called, How

574
00:26:07.430 --> 00:26:08.900
to Have a Happy Marriage.

575
00:26:08.900 --> 00:26:10.790
And it comes with a study guide.

576
00:26:10.790 --> 00:26:13.940
And Denise, today's the first
day we're offering the RIV

577
00:26:13.940 --> 00:26:17.480
of 1st &amp; 2nd Peter, and I'm so excited about this.

578
00:26:17.480 --> 00:26:20.120
So if you ordered Vol. I, be sure now

579
00:26:20.120 --> 00:26:21.350
to order Vol. II.

580
00:26:21.350 --> 00:26:22.795
You will just love it.

581
00:26:22.795 --> 00:26:25.970
And this week I'm gonna be sharing a little bit from 1st

582
00:26:25.970 --> 00:26:27.890
Peter 3 from the RIV.

583
00:26:27.890 --> 00:26:29.480
It's gonna really be good.

584
00:26:29.480 --> 00:26:30.980
But Denise, it's been a pleasure

585
00:26:30.980 --> 00:26:32.720
to share the beginning of our story.

586
00:26:32.720 --> 00:26:33.800
<v ->Was fun, Rick.</v>

587
00:26:33.800 --> 00:26:36.830
<v ->Denise, thank you that you
were patient as I proposed</v>

588
00:26:36.830 --> 00:26:38.300
to you three times.

589
00:26:39.830 --> 00:26:42.560
<v ->Well, I'm thankful
that you kept proposing.</v>

590
00:26:42.560 --> 00:26:44.280
<v ->Well, I'm thankful that you said yes,</v>

591
00:26:45.240 --> 00:26:46.650
and we're glad that you're with us today.

592
00:26:46.650 --> 00:26:48.060
And Denise and I wanna pray for you.

593
00:26:48.060 --> 00:26:50.340
And please remember to
order all these things

594
00:26:50.340 --> 00:26:53.010
by going online or by giving us a call

595
00:26:53.010 --> 00:26:54.510
and let us know how to pray for you.

596
00:26:54.510 --> 00:26:57.570
We want to pray for you. Denise, we mean that - don't we?

597
00:26:57.570 --> 00:27:00.240
Absolutely. So if you've
got a need on your life,

598
00:27:00.240 --> 00:27:03.025
just call the number on the
screen or send us an email.

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00:27:03.025 --> 00:27:06.930
But Father Denise and I together, we pray for our friends

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00:27:06.930 --> 00:27:08.820
and Father, we pray that you would bless them.

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00:27:08.820 --> 00:27:11.040
<v ->Amen. - Lord, we pray you would strengthen them.</v>

602
00:27:11.040 --> 00:27:12.390
particularly this week,

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00:27:12.390 --> 00:27:15.180
we're praying that you strengthen their marriages. Amen.

604
00:27:15.180 --> 00:27:17.370
And Lord, we thank you for this in the wonderful,

605
00:27:17.370 --> 00:27:19.650
mighty name of Jesus,

606
00:27:19.650 --> 00:27:21.390
<v ->Amen.</v>

607
00:27:21.390 --> 00:27:24.150
<v ->Remember, Ecclesiastes 8:4 says, "Where the word</v>

608
00:27:24.150 --> 00:27:27.360
of a king is, there is power."

609
00:27:27.360 --> 00:27:30.420
<v ->If you've never received
Jesus as your Savior</v>

610
00:27:30.420 --> 00:27:34.590
and Lord, now is the time for
you to experience a new life

611
00:27:34.590 --> 00:27:36.660
Jesus has to give you.

612
00:27:36.660 --> 00:27:39.540
Pray this prayer with me right now; Lord,

613
00:27:39.540 --> 00:27:43.470
I repent of my sin and
receive you as my Savior

614
00:27:43.470 --> 00:27:48.240
and Lord. Wash away my sin and make me completely new.

615
00:27:48.240 --> 00:27:50.430
I thank you that my sin is removed

616
00:27:50.430 --> 00:27:54.750
and Satan no longer has any
right to lay claim on me.

617
00:27:54.750 --> 00:27:59.400
I faithfully promise that
I will serve you as my Lord

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00:27:59.400 --> 00:28:02.190
for the rest of my life. Amen.

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<v ->If you just prayed the
prayer of salvation with us,</v>

620
00:28:05.730 --> 00:28:07.410
would you please let us know by going

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00:28:07.410 --> 00:28:09.810
to renner.org/salvation.

622
00:28:09.810 --> 00:28:11.550
We would love to connect with you.

