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REBECCA WEISS: HEY,
WELCOME TO
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THE REBECCA WEISS PODCAST.
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I AM SUPER HAPPY TODAY
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BECAUSE MY FAVORITE PERSON
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IN THE WHOLE WIDE
WORLD IS HERE,
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MY HUSBAND,
JONATHAN WEISS.
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JONATHAN WEISS: I LOVE YOU.
GOOD TO BE HERE.
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REBECCA: THANKS FOR
BEING ON THE SHOW WITH ME.
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JONATHAN: MM-HMM.
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REBECCA: MY FAVORITE
PERSON TO FILM WITH IS YOU.
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JONATHAN: OH, WOW.
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AFTER ALL THE
GUESTS YOU'VE HAD,
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I'M STILL THE FAVORITE?
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REBECCA: YOU'RE
STILL THE FAVORITE.
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JONATHAN:
THAT IS A SHOCK.
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REBECCA: AND
WHAT ARE WE, BABE?
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JONATHAN: PREGNANT?
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REBECCA: YEAH.
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JONATHAN: OH, OKAY.
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REBECCA: I'M PREGNANT
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AND I CAN FINALLY
TALK ABOUT IT
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BECAUSE WE FINALLY
ANNOUNCED IT
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AND I CAN FINALLY
WEAR CLOTHING.
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JONATHAN: CONGRATULATIONS
ON YOUR THIRD CHILD.
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REBECCA: I KNOW,
LOOK, WE DID IT TOGETHER.
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WE'RE A TEAM.
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JONATHAN: WE SAID
WHEN WE WERE DATING
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THAT WE BOTH WANTED THREE
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SO WE'VE ACHIEVED THREE.
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SO EVERYTHING PAST THIS
IS JUST GONNA BE
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EXTRA CREDIT OR
BONUS CREDIT FOR US.
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REBECCA:
THAT'S SO TRUE.
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I REMEMBER WHEN WE
BOTH ASKED EACH OTHER
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HOW MANY KIDS WE WANTED,
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AND WE WERE GONNA SAY IT
LIKE ON THE COUNT OF THREE,
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AND WE BOTH SAID
THREE IN UNISON.
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WE WERE LIKE, WHOA,
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MAYBE WE'RE MEANT
TO BE TOGETHER.
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JONATHAN: ALTHOUGH
I FEEL LIKE THREE IS
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A COMMON NUMBER THAT
PEOPLE WANT, BUT YEAH.
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REBECCA: NO, WE'RE
MEANT TO BE TOGETHER.
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JONATHAN: OKAY.
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REBECCA: THAT'S
EVEN ANOTHER THING,
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IS YOU'RE MORE A REALIST
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AND I'M MORE A DREAMER,
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AND THAT'S WHY
WE'RE GOOD TOGETHER.
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JONATHAN: THAT'S TRUE.
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REBECCA: OKAY. SO WHAT
ARE WE DOING HERE?
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JONATHAN: THERE'S A
GAME PREPARED
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BY YOUR PRODUCTION TEAM.
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I THINK THE INSTRUCTIONS
ARE RIGHT THERE
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IF YOU WANT TO
SHARE WITH EVERYONE
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HOW IT'S GONNA GO DOWN.
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REBECCA: OKAY.
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THIS VALENTINE'S SPECIAL,
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JONATHAN AND I WANTED
TO INVITE THE VIEWERS
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INTO OUR RELATIONSHIP.
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AND OUR AMAZING
PRODUCTION TEAM,
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WHO I'M STARING
AT OVER THERE,
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PUT TOGETHER A
Q AND A GAME
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WHERE THERE ARE THREE
DIFFERENT LEVELS.
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SO WE'RE GONNA START
WITH PERCEPTION.
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PERCEPTION IS ALL
ABOUT OUR IMPRESSIONS
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ABOUT ONE ANOTHER.
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JONATHAN: I'LL
READ A QUESTION FIRST.
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WHAT WAS THE
HARDEST THING
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FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND
ABOUT ME EARLY ON?
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WOW, THAT'S A
GOOD QUESTION.
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REBECCA: THAT IS SO DEEP.
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WE HAVE NOT PREPARED
FOR THIS AT ALL.
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JONATHAN: DEEP
IS WHAT PEOPLE WANT.
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SO WHAT WAS THE
HARDEST THING -
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REBECCA: GIVE THE
PEOPLE WHAT THEY WANT.
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JONATHAN: - YOU HAD TO
LEARN ABOUT ME EARLY ON?
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REBECCA: I WOULD SAY...
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I DON'T KNOW.
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JONATHAN: YEAH, YOU DO.
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REBECCA: IT'S
A HARD QUESTION.
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I THINK I WOULD SAY -
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READ THE QUESTION
ONE MORE TIME.
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JONATHAN: WHAT WAS
THE HARDEST THING
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THAT YOU HAD TO LEARN
ABOUT ME EARLY ON?
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REBECCA: I THINK
THAT YOU ARE FOR ME
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AND YOU WANT THE
BEST FOR ME,
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EVEN WHEN I DON'T
NECESSARILY SEE THAT
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IN HOW YOU ACT
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BECAUSE YOU HANDLE THINGS
DIFFERENTLY THAN I DO.
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JONATHAN: I FEEL LIKE
YOU'RE STILL LEARNING THAT.
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REBECCA: YEAH.
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[ LAUGHTER ]
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REBECCA: BUT YOU ARE FOR ME
MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE,
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AND I FEEL MORE
SUPPORTED BY YOU
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THAN ANYONE IN
MY ENTIRE LIFE.
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SO THANK YOU,
YOU'VE BEEN AMAZING.
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BUT THAT'S TRUE, I THINK
WHEN YOU'RE WITH SOMEONE
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WHO'S SO DIFFERENT
THAN YOU,
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YOU HAVE TO LEARN THAT
THEY'RE GONNA COMMUNICATE
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DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU,
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THEY'RE GONNA SEE THINGS
DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU.
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AND I EVEN HAD TO LEARN
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HOW TO HANDLE MYSELF
DIFFERENTLY THAN I DO
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BECAUSE FOR YOU TO
WORK AS A TEAM -
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JONATHAN: WHAT
DID YOU THINK WHEN
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WE WERE PROBABLY ON -
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REBECCA: I WAS
ALL OVER THE PLACE
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WHEN WE STARTED DATING.
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JONATHAN: OKAY, SO WHEN
YOU VISITED ME
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FOR THE FIRST TIME,
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YOU CAME WITH A FRIEND.
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REBECCA: YEAH.
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JONATHAN: AND YOU GUYS
WERE STAYING AT A HOTEL
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AND I REMEMBER I WAS
WAITING FOR LIKE 30 MINUTES
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IN THE HOTEL LOBBY
PAST THE TIME
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WE WERE SUPPOSED
TO MEET UP.
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AND FINALLY I WAS
JUST LIKE, THAT'S IT.
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AND I WENT UP TO
YOUR HOTEL ROOM
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AND KNOCKED ON THE DOOR,
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AND WHAT DID YOU
THINK WHEN I DID THAT?
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REBECCA: WAIT.
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ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT,
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I THINK YOU'RE MIXING NEW YORK
WITH SAN FRANCISCO.
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JONATHAN: I AM NOT.
I REMEMBER SPECIFICALLY -
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REBECCA: WAIT, SO
THIS HAPPENED TWICE?
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JONATHAN: YEAH, IT'S
HAPPENED OUR WHOLE MARRIAGE.
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INCLUDING BEFORE
THIS EPISODE,
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I SAT HERE
WAITING FOR YOU.
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SO WHAT DID YOU THINK
WHEN I JUST LIKE
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CAME TO THE DOOR?
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REBECCA: I
WAS LIKE, WOW,
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THIS GUY IS ASSERTIVE.
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JONATHAN: HE'S
HARASSING ME.
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[ LAUGHTER ]
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REBECCA: NO, BUT I
NEED THAT, SO IT'S GOOD.
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BUT YOU'RE LIKE,
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I'M NOT GONNA
SIT AROUND AND WAIT,
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I'M GONNA MAKE
THIS HAPPEN.
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AND THAT'S WHAT I
WANTED IN A PARTNER.
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IT'S JUST KICKED MY BUTT
A FEW TIMES, THAT'S ALL.
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JONATHAN: YOU READ ME
QUESTION NUMBER ONE.
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REBECCA: OKAY.
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THIS QUESTION IS GONNA
BE A SAVAGE ANSWER.
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JONATHAN: ALL RIGHT.
READ IT.
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[ LAUGHTER ]
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REBECCA: WHAT WAS I
WEARING ON OUR FIRST DATE?
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JONATHAN: OKAY.
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OUR FIRST DATE.
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REBECCA: THE
GATEWAY OUTFIT.
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JONATHAN: YEAH.
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IT WAS LIKE A MAROON -
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REBECCA: YEAH,
IT WAS MAROON.
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JONATHAN: I DON'T
FORGET ANYTHING.
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A MAROON AND
LIKE FLORAL -
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REBECCA: NO, IT WAS
JUST MAROON, IT WAS LONG.
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JONATHAN:
OKAY, VERY MAROON.
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SO MAROON THAT LIKE
YOU ALMOST THOUGHT
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THERE WERE FLOWERS IN IT.
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AND BLACK PANTS
AND BLACK BOOTS,
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LIKE BOOTIE
BOOTS, NOT BOOTS.
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REBECCA: YEAH. BOOTIE BOOTS.
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JONATHAN: WHAT
DO THEY CALL THOSE,
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LITTLE BOOTIES,
I DON'T KNOW?
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I'M NOT VERY GOOD
WITH GIRLS FASHION.
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AND YOU HAD ON WAY
TOO MUCH PERFUME.
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LIKE SO MUCH PERFUME THAT
I THOUGHT I WAS GONNA -
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REBECCA:
THAT WAS LATER.
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JONATHAN: OH, THAT WAS LATER?
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REBECCA: THAT
WASN'T THE FIRST TIME.
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JONATHAN: ARE YOU SURE?
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REBECCA: I'M POSITIVE.
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OKAY.
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NOW WE HAVE TO
TELL THAT STORY.
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O GOD, THESE ARE JUST ALL
TERRIBLE STORIES ABOUT ME.
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JONATHAN: NO. YOU'RE FINE.
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REBECCA: SO WHEN JONATHAN
AND I WERE DATING,
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I WANTED TO IMPRESS HIM.
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AND SO I WENT TO SEPHORA
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AND I GOT A BUNCH OF
SAMPLES OF PERFUME
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THAT ARE LIKE THIS BIG.
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JONATHAN: LITERALLY
MY NIGHTMARE.
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REBECCA: AND BEFORE
I WENT ON THE PLANE,
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I SPRAYED PERFUME.
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WHILE I WAS ON THE
PLANE, I SPRAYED PERFUME.
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WHEN I GOT OFF THE PLANE,
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I SPRAYED PERFUME.
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AND JONATHAN IS REALLY
SENSITIVE TO SMELL.
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JONATHAN: OKAY, I
MIGHT BE SENSITIVE.
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YOU'RE SUPPOSED
TO SPRAY THAT STUFF
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ONCE IN THE MORNING
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IN FRONT OF YOU AND
KIND OF WAVE IT AROUND.
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AND YOU DIRECTLY
SPRAYED IT ON YOURSELF.
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REBECCA: I'M
KIND OF THE PERSON,
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JONATHAN CAN TELL YOU THIS,
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I'M LIKE ALL OR NOTHING.
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SO IT'S LIKE IF I'M
GONNA DO SOMETHING,
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I'M GONNA DO IT.
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JONATHAN: YOU'RE
LIKE I'M GONNA SMELL.
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REBECCA: IF I'M
GONNA COOK SOMETHING,
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THERE'S PROBABLY TOO
MANY SPICES IN IT.
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LIKE I JUST, I GO
A LITTLE TOO HARD.
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JONATHAN: THAT'S TRUE.
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REBECCA: BECAUSE I'M A
LITTLE OVERENTHUSIASTIC.
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JONATHAN:
THAT'S SO TRUE.
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REBECCA: AND SO LITERALLY
I GET OFF THE PLANE,
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I SPRAY IT AGAIN.
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AND THIS WASN'T LIKE
SOME SUBTLE PERFUME.
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THIS WAS LIKE SOME
FLORAL LADY PERFUME.
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JONATHAN: LIKE A
JAPANESE FLOWER DAY.
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REBECCA: DON'T KNOW WHY
I CHOSE THE STRONGEST,
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MOST PERFUMIEST PERFUME.
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AND SO JONATHAN PICKS ME
UP FROM THE SF AIRPORT,
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AND I GET INTO HIS CAR
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AND IT'S LIKE A
BOMB HAS GONE OFF.
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A FLOWER BOMB.
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AND HE CAN'T EVEN BREATHE
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BECAUSE WE'RE IN
YOUR LITTLE NISSAN.
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JONATHAN: IT
WASN'T LITTLE,
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IT WAS A FOUR DOOR SEDAN.
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REBECCA: I'M JUST SAYING
WE'RE IN A SMALL CAR.
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THERE'S NOT EVEN SPACE FOR
THE PERFUME TO AIR OUT.
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SO TELL ME, WHAT DO YOU -
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SO JONATHAN IMMEDIATELY -
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JONATHAN: I THINK I
ROLLED DOWN MY WINDOW
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AND YOUR WINDOW.
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REBECCA: HE ROLLS
DOWN ALL THE WINDOWS
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AND IT WAS SO FUNNY
THE MOMENT I GOT IN,
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BECAUSE IT'S ALREADY
KIND OF AWKWARD
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WHEN YOU'RE DATING
LONG DISTANCE
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AND YOU HAVEN'T
SEEN EACH OTHER.
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BECAUSE WE DATED LONG
DISTANCE AT FIRST.
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AND WHEN I GOT IN,
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YOU IMMEDIATELY
WERE UNCOMFORTABLE.
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JONATHAN: I THINK I
SAID SOMETHING, RIGHT,
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OR NO?
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REBECCA: AT FIRST, YOU
JUST ACTED KIND OF WEIRD.
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AND THEN YOU WERE LIKE,
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I HAVE TO ROLL
DOWN THE WINDOWS.
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AND I REMEMBER BEING
SO EMBARRASSED.
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JONATHAN: ALL RIGHT.
I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU.
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REBECCA: SO ANYWAYS, I DON'T
WEAR PERFUME ANYMORE.
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JONATHAN: BUT YOU
SMELL GOOD NATURALLY,
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WHICH IS PERFECT.
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REBECCA: THANK YOU.
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JONATHAN: WHAT HAS THIS
RELATIONSHIP TAUGHT YOU
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ABOUT YOURSELF?
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REBECCA: I THINK THAT
HONESTLY GETTING MARRIED,
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WHICH I DID NOT
KNOW GOING INTO IT,
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I THINK MARRIAGE IS
A REALLY GOOD WAY
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TO ACTUALLY SEE YOURSELF
IN A NEW LIGHT;
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I THINK TO SEE
YOUR BLIND SPOTS
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AND TO SEE THE THINGS
00:07:07.567 --> 00:07:09.034
THAT NEED WORKING ON.
00:07:09.134 --> 00:07:12.233
AND SO THIS RELATIONSHIP
NOT ONLY TAUGHT ME
00:07:12.333 --> 00:07:14.267
A LOT ABOUT MYSELF
IN TERMS OF THINGS
00:07:14.367 --> 00:07:16.300
THAT NEEDED TO
BE WORKED ON,
00:07:16.400 --> 00:07:18.200
THINGS THAT NEEDED
TO BE HEALED,
00:07:18.300 --> 00:07:20.133
BUT ALSO I THINK
YOU SHOWED ME
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POTENTIAL WITHIN MYSELF
THAT I DIDN'T EVEN SEE.
00:07:22.466 --> 00:07:24.300
AND YOU HELPED STEWARD
AND HELPED FOSTER THAT
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AND HELPED MAKE THAT GROW.
00:07:25.867 --> 00:07:27.334
NOW I'M GONNA SAY IF
YOU'RE IN A MARRIAGE,
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IT'S NOT GONNA
AUTOMATICALLY HAPPEN.
00:07:28.934 --> 00:07:29.800
YOU HAVE TO HAVE A SPOUSE
00:07:29.900 --> 00:07:33.366
WHO'S GOING TO BE
SUPPORTIVE OF YOU
00:07:33.466 --> 00:07:36.233
AND I THINK EVEN GOING
INTO YOU MARRYING ME,
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YOU SAW THE POTENTIAL,
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EVEN THOUGH IT WASN'T
PRESENTING IN THAT MOMENT.
00:07:40.367 --> 00:07:42.033
YOU KNEW THAT IN TIME,
00:07:42.133 --> 00:07:44.200
THINGS COULD CHANGE
AND WE COULD GROW,
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I COULD GROW,
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AND WE COULD REALLY
BE SOMETHING TOGETHER.
00:07:48.200 --> 00:07:49.733
SO IT'S TAUGHT ME A LOT.
00:07:49.833 --> 00:07:51.666
IF YOU ALLOW MARRIAGE -
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IF YOU ALLOW
YOURSELF TO BE OPEN,
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AND TO HEAR THE GOOD
AND THE NOT SO EASY,
00:07:56.700 --> 00:07:57.700
THE HARD,
00:07:57.800 --> 00:07:59.700
BUT KNOWING IT'S COMING
FROM A PLACE OF LOVE,
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YOU REALLY CAN
GROW AND CHANGE
00:08:01.900 --> 00:08:03.233
AND BECOME A
BETTER PERSON.
00:08:03.333 --> 00:08:04.933
AND THERE'S
ACTUALLY A BOOK
00:08:05.033 --> 00:08:05.867
THAT THE TITLE IS,
00:08:05.967 --> 00:08:07.867
MARRIAGE IS NOT TO
MAKE YOU HAPPY,
00:08:07.967 --> 00:08:09.333
IT'S TO MAKE YOU HOLY.
00:08:09.433 --> 00:08:10.467
AND I JUST THINK
THAT'S TRUE.
00:08:10.567 --> 00:08:11.633
I THINK GOD PUTS US,
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WHEN WE GO INTO A UNION,
00:08:13.300 --> 00:08:15.667
WE'RE GONNA BECOME
MORE HOLY PEOPLE
00:08:15.767 --> 00:08:18.167
AND WE'RE GONNA
REFLECT GOD'S GLORY.
00:08:18.267 --> 00:08:18.934
JONATHAN: I LOVE THAT.
00:08:19.034 --> 00:08:19.734
SO WELL SAID.
00:08:19.834 --> 00:08:20.900
REBECCA: THANKS.
00:08:21.000 --> 00:08:21.734
JONATHAN: ALL
RIGHT, YOUR TURN.
00:08:21.834 --> 00:08:22.867
QUESTION NUMBER TWO.
00:08:22.967 --> 00:08:24.833
OR CATEGORY NUMBER TWO.
00:08:24.933 --> 00:08:26.333
REBECCA: OH, THIS IS -
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FINALLY A POSITIVE
QUESTION ABOUT ME.
00:08:28.267 --> 00:08:29.200
JONATHAN: OKAY, GOOD.
00:08:29.300 --> 00:08:30.533
REBECCA: WHEN DO YOU
THINK I'M AT MY BEST,
00:08:30.633 --> 00:08:33.567
AND WHO AM I WITH
AND WHAT AM I DOING?
00:08:33.667 --> 00:08:36.100
JONATHAN: YOU'RE DEFINITELY
100 PERCENT AT YOUR BEST
00:08:36.200 --> 00:08:39.100
AFTER YOU'VE HAD
TIME WITH THE LORD.
00:08:39.200 --> 00:08:40.267
REBECCA: I KNEW YOU
WERE GONNA SAY THAT.
00:08:40.367 --> 00:08:41.200
IT'S TRUE.
00:08:41.300 --> 00:08:42.600
JONATHAN: BECAUSE
THAT'S LIKE MY GO TO,
00:08:42.700 --> 00:08:44.000
IF I EVER FEEL LIKE
YOU'RE IN A FUNK
00:08:44.100 --> 00:08:46.600
OR SOMETHING'S GOING ON
AND IT'S NOT CORRECT,
00:08:46.700 --> 00:08:48.467
OR, YOU KNOW, THERE'S AN
ATTITUDE OR SOMETHING,
00:08:48.567 --> 00:08:51.100
I'LL JUST SAY, HAVE
YOU HAD YOUR QUIET TIME?
00:08:51.200 --> 00:08:52.800
AND THE ANSWER
IS ALWAYS NO.
00:08:52.900 --> 00:08:54.267
AND THEN ONCE YOU HAVE
THE QUIET TIME,
00:08:54.367 --> 00:08:56.333
IT'S LIKE A
WHOLE NEW PERSON.
00:08:56.433 --> 00:08:57.367
I ALWAYS SAY IT TO YOU.
00:08:57.467 --> 00:08:58.733
I'M LIKE, THIS IS THE
GIRL THAT I MARRIED.
00:08:58.833 --> 00:09:01.700
THIS IS THE ONE
THAT I LOVE.
00:09:01.800 --> 00:09:03.300
SO, YEAH, THAT'S DEFINITELY
THE FIRST PART,
00:09:03.400 --> 00:09:04.600
IS YOU'RE DEFINITELY
AT YOUR BEST,
00:09:04.700 --> 00:09:06.434
THE MORE TIME YOU'RE
SPENDING WITH THE LORD.
00:09:06.534 --> 00:09:07.833
I MEAN YOU'RE -
00:09:07.933 --> 00:09:08.666
WE'RE ALL WIRED
AND CREATED
00:09:08.766 --> 00:09:10.334
TO BE IN RELATIONSHIP
WITH HIM.
00:09:10.434 --> 00:09:12.600
BUT NO ONE TO ME
HAS MODELED IT
00:09:12.700 --> 00:09:15.333
MORE THAN YOU AS FAR AS
00:09:15.433 --> 00:09:16.933
HOW MUCH IT
CAN CHANGE YOU.
00:09:17.033 --> 00:09:18.500
I MEAN, YOU'RE TRULY A
REFLECTION OF HIM
00:09:18.600 --> 00:09:19.500
AFTER YOU'RE WITH HIM.
00:09:19.600 --> 00:09:21.333
YOU'RE MORE SERVING,
YOU'RE MORE LOVING,
00:09:21.433 --> 00:09:22.500
YOU'RE MORE NURTURING,
00:09:22.600 --> 00:09:25.033
YOU'RE KINDER, YOU'RE
SWEETER, YOU'RE FUNNIER.
00:09:25.133 --> 00:09:27.200
YOU'RE ALL THE THINGS
AFTER YOU
00:09:27.300 --> 00:09:28.233
SPEND TIME WITH HIM.
00:09:28.333 --> 00:09:29.866
SO THAT'S DEFINITELY, AT
LEAST THE FIRST PART
00:09:29.966 --> 00:09:30.900
OF THAT QUESTION.
00:09:31.000 --> 00:09:31.800
WHAT WAS THE SECOND
PART OF THAT QUESTION?
00:09:31.900 --> 00:09:32.700
REBECCA: NO,
YOU ANSWERED IT.
00:09:32.800 --> 00:09:33.866
JONATHAN: OH, OKAY.
00:09:33.966 --> 00:09:34.800
AFTER YOU'RE
WITH THE LORD.
00:09:34.900 --> 00:09:35.566
REBECCA: EXACTLY.
00:09:35.666 --> 00:09:37.400
AND I THINK IT'S
LIKE A CARB,
00:09:37.500 --> 00:09:38.567
YOU CAN'T RUN ON EMPTY.
00:09:38.667 --> 00:09:40.800
YOU HAVE TO CONSISTENTLY
FILL IT BACK UP.
00:09:40.900 --> 00:09:41.833
WE'RE THE SAME WAY.
00:09:41.933 --> 00:09:43.234
WE CAN'T JUST HAVE ONE
ENCOUNTER WITH GOD,
00:09:43.334 --> 00:09:45.367
WE CAN'T JUST READ
OUR BIBLE ONCE,
00:09:45.467 --> 00:09:46.967
WE'RE TRANSFORMED
FROM GLORY TO GLORY,
00:09:47.067 --> 00:09:48.600
FROM ENCOUNTER
TO ENCOUNTER,
00:09:48.700 --> 00:09:49.400
THAT WE HAVE WITH HIM.
00:09:49.500 --> 00:09:50.166
JONATHAN: BUT
LET ME JUST SAY,
00:09:50.266 --> 00:09:51.100
YOU SAY THE SAME
THING TO ME.
00:09:51.200 --> 00:09:52.766
I MEAN, THERE'S TIMES
WHERE I'M GRUMPY
00:09:52.866 --> 00:09:54.000
OR NOT IN THE RIGHT
HEAD SPACE,
00:09:54.100 --> 00:09:55.933
AND YOU SAY YOU NEED
TO GO, YOU KNOW,
00:09:56.033 --> 00:09:57.067
GO OUTSIDE,
GO FOR A WALK,
00:09:57.167 --> 00:09:57.967
GO HAVE PRAYER TIME,
00:09:58.067 --> 00:09:59.800
GO TO A NOTHING AREA.
00:09:59.900 --> 00:10:02.633
AND I LIKE TO BE
OUTSIDE IN NATURE
00:10:02.733 --> 00:10:04.000
AND CONNECT WITH GOD.
00:10:04.100 --> 00:10:05.367
REBECCA: YEAH,
IT'S SO TRUE.
00:10:05.467 --> 00:10:06.167
JONATHAN: ALL RIGHT.
00:10:06.267 --> 00:10:06.800
I'M GONNA READ
YOU A QUESTION
00:10:06.900 --> 00:10:07.600
FROM CATEGORY THREE.
00:10:07.700 --> 00:10:10.166
REBECCA: OKAY.
00:10:10.266 --> 00:10:12.533
JONATHAN: ONE THING
YOU'D NEVER CHANGE
00:10:12.633 --> 00:10:14.234
ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP.
00:10:14.334 --> 00:10:15.533
REBECCA: AWW,
OUR FRIENDSHIP
00:10:15.633 --> 00:10:18.000
AND ALL THE GOOD TIMES
THAT WE HAVE TOGETHER.
00:10:18.100 --> 00:10:20.266
I WOULD NEVER CHANGE THAT.
00:10:20.366 --> 00:10:21.667
I THINK, YOU KNOW,
00:10:21.767 --> 00:10:25.433
YOU HAVE TO HAVE PHYSICAL
CHEMISTRY, OBVIOUSLY,
00:10:25.533 --> 00:10:28.034
AND A LOVE AND A PASSION
FOR ONE ANOTHER,
00:10:28.134 --> 00:10:31.833
BUT I THINK THE FRIENDSHIP
IS MUCH MORE FOUNDATIONAL.
00:10:31.933 --> 00:10:35.100
JONATHAN: I
WOULD NOT CHANGE
00:10:35.200 --> 00:10:39.200
OUR MUTUAL HUNGER TO
SERVE THE LORD TOGETHER.
00:10:39.300 --> 00:10:40.366
I FEEL LIKE
THAT'S ONE THING
00:10:40.466 --> 00:10:42.900
THAT LIKE VERY EARLY ON
WHEN WE WERE JUST TALKING,
00:10:43.000 --> 00:10:45.666
THAT'S WHAT REALLY DREW ME
SUPER CLOSE TO YOU WAS -
00:10:45.766 --> 00:10:47.200
REBECCA: THAT
DREW US TOGETHER.
00:10:47.300 --> 00:10:48.500
JONATHAN: IT DID.
00:10:48.600 --> 00:10:50.100
REBECCA: A
SENSE OF MISSION.
00:10:50.200 --> 00:10:51.067
JONATHAN: AND WHAT'S
AMAZING ABOUT THAT,
00:10:51.167 --> 00:10:52.366
IT SAYS ALL
THROUGH THE BIBLE
00:10:52.466 --> 00:10:54.067
THAT A THREE-CORD IS
NOT EASILY BROKEN.
00:10:54.167 --> 00:10:55.267
YOU KNOW, BRINGING THE
HOLY SPIRIT
00:10:55.367 --> 00:10:56.333
INTO THE RELATIONSHIP.
00:10:56.433 --> 00:10:58.167
AND WE DID THAT
WHEN WE WERE DATING.
00:10:58.267 --> 00:11:01.500
AND I FEEL LIKE HAVING
THAT BE THE CENTERPIECE
00:11:01.600 --> 00:11:03.200
HAS KEPT US
THROUGH HARD TIMES.
00:11:03.300 --> 00:11:04.400
BECAUSE YOU'RE GONNA
GO THROUGH HARD TIMES.
00:11:04.500 --> 00:11:05.567
WE'VE GONE THROUGH
HARD TIMES.
00:11:05.667 --> 00:11:06.367
REBECCA: OH, MY GOODNESS.
00:11:06.467 --> 00:11:07.367
JONATHAN: HAVING
CHILDREN'S HARD.
00:11:07.467 --> 00:11:09.733
HAVING FAMILIES THAT
YOU BRING TOGETHER.
00:11:09.833 --> 00:11:10.900
REBECCA: BEING CALLED
INTO MINISTRY IS HARD.
00:11:11.000 --> 00:11:12.700
JONATHAN: BEING IN MINISTRY
FULL TIME IS HARD.
00:11:12.800 --> 00:11:13.700
SO THERE ARE ALL OF
THESE CHALLENGES
00:11:13.800 --> 00:11:14.933
AND EVERYBODY WATCHING
HAS THEIR OWN
00:11:15.033 --> 00:11:16.700
SET OF CHALLENGES.
00:11:16.800 --> 00:11:19.066
BUT I'D SAY IF YOU
BRING THE HOLY SPIRIT
00:11:19.166 --> 00:11:20.934
AND MAKE HIM, MAKE
JESUS THE CENTER
00:11:21.034 --> 00:11:22.434
OF THE RELATIONSHIP,
00:11:22.534 --> 00:11:23.767
THEN EVERYTHING
CAN WORK OUT.
00:11:23.867 --> 00:11:25.566
REBECCA: THAT'S
SUCH A GOOD ANSWER.
00:11:25.666 --> 00:11:27.467
AND I THINK, TOO, THE
OTHER THING THAT I LOVE
00:11:27.567 --> 00:11:28.566
ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP
00:11:28.666 --> 00:11:30.600
IS THE SENSE OF
PARTNERSHIP,
00:11:30.700 --> 00:11:32.900
THAT WE HAVE LIKE
THE SAME VISION.
00:11:33.000 --> 00:11:34.767
JONATHAN: YEAH, OUR
FAVORITE DATES IS WHEN -
00:11:34.867 --> 00:11:36.100
NOT OUR FAVORITE DATES
BUT SOMETIMES
00:11:36.200 --> 00:11:37.434
OUR FAVORITE DATES
IS WHEN WE DO SOMETHING
00:11:37.534 --> 00:11:38.466
LIKE PRODUCTIVE TOGETHER.
00:11:38.566 --> 00:11:39.267
WE'RE RUNNING
ERRANDS TOGETHER,
00:11:39.367 --> 00:11:41.100
BUT WE'RE ON THE
SAME MISSION.
00:11:41.200 --> 00:11:42.467
WE HAVE LIKE A
MISSION OBJECTIVE.
00:11:42.567 --> 00:11:43.367
REBECCA: WE HAVE THE SAME -
00:11:43.467 --> 00:11:44.800
IT'S LIKE YOUR
DREAMS ARE MY DREAMS
00:11:44.900 --> 00:11:46.767
AND MY DREAMS
ARE YOUR DREAMS,
00:11:46.867 --> 00:11:48.433
IN TERMS OF I WANTED
TO DO THIS PODCAST.
00:11:48.533 --> 00:11:49.567
JONATHAN:
THAT'S SO TRUE.
00:11:49.667 --> 00:11:50.134
REBECCA: AND I COULDN'T
HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT YOU.
00:11:50.234 --> 00:11:50.966
JONATHAN: RIGHT.
00:11:51.066 --> 00:11:51.967
REBECCA: AND
THEN EVERYTHING,
00:11:52.067 --> 00:11:53.033
ALL THE DREAMS
THAT YOU HAVE,
00:11:53.133 --> 00:11:54.800
IT'S LIKE THEY'RE MINE.
00:11:54.900 --> 00:11:55.667
IT'S LIKE WHEN I'M
HELPING YOU
00:11:55.767 --> 00:11:57.100
ACCOMPLISH THOSE DREAMS,
00:11:57.200 --> 00:11:58.533
IT'S ONE OF THE MOST
FULFILLING THINGS,
00:11:58.633 --> 00:11:59.800
TO KNOW THAT
WE HAVE A VISION
00:11:59.900 --> 00:12:01.900
AND DREAMS TOGETHER,
AND WE'RE HELPING -
00:12:02.000 --> 00:12:03.234
IT'S LIKE WE'RE
THE ULTIMATE TEAM.
00:12:03.334 --> 00:12:04.300
AND IT'S ONE OF THE MOST -
00:12:04.400 --> 00:12:05.900
YOU'RE RIGHT, ONE OF THE
MOST SATISFYING THINGS
00:12:06.000 --> 00:12:07.700
IN OUR RELATIONSHIP
IS US ACCOMPLISHING
00:12:07.800 --> 00:12:08.733
THOSE THINGS TOGETHER.
00:12:08.833 --> 00:12:10.066
JONATHAN: MM-HMM.
00:12:10.166 --> 00:12:11.200
ALL RIGHT. READ ME A QUESTION
00:12:11.300 --> 00:12:16.700
FROM CATEGORY NUMBER THREE.
00:12:16.800 --> 00:12:18.067
REBECCA: FINISH
THIS SENTENCE -
00:12:18.167 --> 00:12:19.467
JONATHAN: THE DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN ME AND YOU,
00:12:19.567 --> 00:12:22.000
IS YOU PREREAD, PRESCREEN
EVERY QUESTION.
00:12:22.100 --> 00:12:23.100
I JUST PICK IT
UP AND READ IT.
00:12:23.200 --> 00:12:24.367
REBECCA: YEAH.
00:12:24.467 --> 00:12:25.467
WHICH IS, ONCE
AGAIN, AN EXAMPLE
00:12:25.567 --> 00:12:27.500
OF WHY BEING
DIFFERENT IS GOOD.
00:12:27.600 --> 00:12:28.933
CELEBRATE YOUR
DIFFERENCES.
00:12:29.033 --> 00:12:30.800
DON'T FIGHT OVER THEM.
00:12:30.900 --> 00:12:32.667
UNDERSTAND THAT THEY'RE
DIFFERENT FOR A REASON.
00:12:32.767 --> 00:12:33.700
JONATHAN: YEAH.
AND IT'S A MUSCLE,
00:12:33.800 --> 00:12:34.633
YOU HAVE TO WORK AT IT.
00:12:34.733 --> 00:12:35.467
LIKE, IT'S NOT GONNA
COME NATURALLY.
00:12:35.567 --> 00:12:36.833
YOU'RE GONNA WANT TO -
00:12:36.933 --> 00:12:38.800
REBECCA: WHAT DID ANNA KENDALL
SAY TO YOU ABOUT ME?
00:12:38.900 --> 00:12:39.866
JONATHAN: ANNA KENDALL
IS SOMEBODY
00:12:39.966 --> 00:12:43.067
THAT WE WORKED WITH IN
PREMARITAL COUNSELING
00:12:43.167 --> 00:12:44.867
WHO IS AMAZING.
00:12:44.967 --> 00:12:46.700
I MEAN, SHE GAVE ME SO
MUCH COUNSEL ABOUT YOU.
00:12:46.800 --> 00:12:47.533
REBECCA: SHE SAID
SOMETHING LIKE
00:12:47.633 --> 00:12:48.333
SHE'S GOING TO DO IT,
00:12:48.433 --> 00:12:49.867
NOT THE WAY YOU
WOULD DO IT.
00:12:49.967 --> 00:12:50.600
JONATHAN: YES.
00:12:50.700 --> 00:12:53.267
THIS WAS MONUMENTAL.
00:12:53.367 --> 00:12:54.300
YEAH, SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
00:12:54.400 --> 00:12:57.033
SHE'S GONNA DO IT, NOT
NECESSARILY THE WAY
00:12:57.133 --> 00:12:59.833
THAT YOU WOULD HAVE
DONE IT, YOU KNOW.
00:12:59.933 --> 00:13:01.500
BUT I DON'T REMEMBER
EXACTLY HOW SHE SAID IT,
00:13:01.600 --> 00:13:02.700
OR EVEN THE CONTEXT IN
WHICH WE WERE
00:13:02.800 --> 00:13:04.634
TALKING ABOUT THIS,
00:13:04.734 --> 00:13:06.334
BUT IT WAS SOMETHING
TO THE EFFECT OF
00:13:06.434 --> 00:13:07.800
IT'S GONNA GET DONE.
00:13:07.900 --> 00:13:08.933
REBECCA: IT'S
GONNA GET DONE.
00:13:09.033 --> 00:13:09.967
JONATHAN: YOU KNOW,
IT'S JUST GONNA HAPPEN
00:13:10.067 --> 00:13:11.666
IN A WAY THAT
YOU'RE NOT USED TO.
00:13:11.766 --> 00:13:12.934
REBECCA: SO DON'T
GET FRUSTRATED.
00:13:13.034 --> 00:13:14.333
YOU KNOW, DON'T
GET FRUSTRATED.
00:13:14.433 --> 00:13:16.267
AND SO THAT'S A HUGE
WORD OF ADVICE IS,
00:13:16.367 --> 00:13:17.967
LEARN TO CELEBRATE
THE DIFFERENCES
00:13:18.067 --> 00:13:19.834
AND KNOW THAT IT HELPS
BRING BALANCE
00:13:19.934 --> 00:13:21.133
TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP
00:13:21.233 --> 00:13:22.900
VERSUS BEING
FRUSTRATED BY THEM.
00:13:23.000 --> 00:13:24.000
BECAUSE WHEN YOU
GET MARRIED,
00:13:24.100 --> 00:13:25.400
YOUR DIFFERENCES
ALL COME TO THE FOREFRONT.
00:13:25.500 --> 00:13:27.800
JONATHAN: BUT I'D
ALSO ADD TO THAT AND SAY,
00:13:27.900 --> 00:13:30.633
LOOK, THERE'S A REASON
WHY YOU'RE MY PARTNER
00:13:30.733 --> 00:13:31.900
AND I'M YOUR PARTNER,
00:13:32.000 --> 00:13:34.700
IS BECAUSE YOU CAN SHED
LIGHT INTO BLIND SPOTS
00:13:34.800 --> 00:13:36.967
THAT I WOULDN'T NECESSARILY
SEE AND VICE VERSA.
00:13:37.067 --> 00:13:38.434
I CAN SHED LIGHT
INTO BLIND SPOTS.
00:13:38.534 --> 00:13:39.934
SO WHERE YOU MIGHT THINK
EVERYTHING'S OKAY,
00:13:40.034 --> 00:13:41.233
AND I'M DOING THIS
AND IT'S GREAT,
00:13:41.333 --> 00:13:43.000
I CAN SAY ACTUALLY
THERE'S THIS LITTLE AREA,
00:13:43.100 --> 00:13:45.300
AND THEN YOU CAN RECEIVE
THAT AND THEN SAY IT FOR ME.
00:13:45.400 --> 00:13:46.634
I COULD BE DOING
SOMETHING,
00:13:46.734 --> 00:13:49.100
YOU KNOW, SAY I'M TALKING
TO MY KIDS THE WRONG WAY,
00:13:49.200 --> 00:13:50.833
OR, YOU KNOW,
WHATEVER IT IS,
00:13:50.933 --> 00:13:52.167
AND THEN YOU CAN
SHED LIGHT INTO THAT.
00:13:52.267 --> 00:13:53.633
AND IF YOU'RE OPEN
AND TRANSPARENT
00:13:53.733 --> 00:13:54.800
AND TRUSTING THAT
OTHER PERSON,
00:13:54.900 --> 00:13:58.567
YOU CAN RECEIVE THAT
AND NOT BE DEFENSIVE
00:13:58.667 --> 00:14:00.366
AND BE LIKE, OH, NO,
THAT'S THE WAY YOU DO IT.
00:14:00.466 --> 00:14:01.467
OR THIS IS THE
WAY I DO IT.
00:14:01.567 --> 00:14:02.500
AND YOU JUST LEARN.
00:14:02.600 --> 00:14:04.167
AND IF YOU CONTINUE TO
GO WITH THAT MODEL,
00:14:04.267 --> 00:14:05.300
IT'S LIKE IRON
SHARPENING IRON,
00:14:05.400 --> 00:14:07.134
AND YOU JUST GET BETTER
AND BETTER TOGETHER.
00:14:07.234 --> 00:14:08.734
REBECCA: AND I THINK
THE QUICKER YOU CAN LEARN
00:14:08.834 --> 00:14:12.367
TO JUST HAVE THE MINDSET
OF SERVING ONE ANOTHER,
00:14:12.467 --> 00:14:14.000
FORGIVING ONE ANOTHER,
00:14:14.100 --> 00:14:16.700
AND DOING THAT QUICKLY
00:14:16.800 --> 00:14:18.533
SO THAT YOU'RE NOT IN
A PLACE OF CONTENTION,
00:14:18.633 --> 00:14:19.834
BUT YOU'RE IN A
PLACE OF HARMONY,
00:14:19.934 --> 00:14:21.333
I THINK THAT'S HUGE.
00:14:21.433 --> 00:14:22.800
DON'T SWEAT THE
SMALL STUFF.
00:14:22.900 --> 00:14:24.900
DON'T FIGHT OVER
THE SMALL STUFF.
00:14:25.000 --> 00:14:27.167
AND JUST, IT'S NOT
ABOUT BEING RIGHT.
00:14:27.267 --> 00:14:29.034
IT'S ABOUT BEING RIGHTLY
RELATED TO ONE ANOTHER.
00:14:29.134 --> 00:14:29.866
JONATHAN: RIGHTEOUS.
00:14:29.966 --> 00:14:31.267
REBECCA: EXACTLY.
00:14:31.367 --> 00:14:32.067
JONATHAN: WHAT'S
THE QUESTION?
00:14:32.167 --> 00:14:33.400
YOU NEVER READ
THE QUESTION.
00:14:33.500 --> 00:14:34.500
REBECCA: FINISH
THIS SENTENCE.
00:14:34.600 --> 00:14:38.133
I'M PROUDEST OF
YOU FOR WHAT?
00:14:38.233 --> 00:14:41.133
JONATHAN: I'M PROUDEST
OF YOU FOR
00:14:41.233 --> 00:14:42.600
THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE.
00:14:42.700 --> 00:14:44.333
I'M PROUDEST OF YOU FOR -
00:14:44.433 --> 00:14:45.134
WHAT?
00:14:45.234 --> 00:14:46.800
I'M PRACTICING MY ANSWERS.
00:14:46.900 --> 00:14:47.500
I HAD NO TIME TO
THINK ABOUT THIS.
00:14:47.600 --> 00:14:48.667
REBECCA: NO,
THESE ARE -
00:14:48.767 --> 00:14:50.800
JONATHAN: I'M
PROUDEST OF YOU FOR
00:14:50.900 --> 00:14:52.567
THE MOTHER THAT
YOU'VE BECOME.
00:14:52.667 --> 00:14:53.534
REBECCA: AWW.
00:14:53.634 --> 00:14:54.600
JONATHAN: I'M
REALLY PROUD OF YOU.
00:14:54.700 --> 00:14:56.833
I MEAN, I'VE SEEN YOU HAVE
ONE KID, TWO KIDS,
00:14:56.933 --> 00:14:59.400
AND NOW YOU'RE PREGNANT
WITH OUR THIRD.
00:14:59.500 --> 00:15:04.167
AND WHAT AN INCREDIBLE,
LIKE, BLESSING
00:15:04.267 --> 00:15:05.666
YOU HAVE BEEN
TO MY CHILDREN
00:15:05.766 --> 00:15:07.400
AND TO ME AS NOT
JUST MY WIFE
00:15:07.500 --> 00:15:08.667
BUT AS THEIR MOTHER.
00:15:08.767 --> 00:15:10.600
AND THAT'S SOMETHING
THAT YOU REALLY,
00:15:10.700 --> 00:15:11.467
WHEN YOU'RE
DATING SOMEONE
00:15:11.567 --> 00:15:12.566
YOU GET TO KNOW THEM,
00:15:12.666 --> 00:15:13.033
BUT YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT
THEY'RE GONNA BE LIKE
00:15:13.133 --> 00:15:14.100
AS A PARENT.
00:15:14.200 --> 00:15:15.267
THAT'S A WHOLE
NOTHER THING.
00:15:15.367 --> 00:15:17.167
UNLESS YOU GO
INTO, YOU KNOW,
00:15:17.267 --> 00:15:17.933
A SECOND MARRIAGE OR
SOMETHING LIKE THAT
00:15:18.033 --> 00:15:19.400
AND THEY ALREADY
HAVE KIDS.
00:15:19.500 --> 00:15:21.334
THAT'S SOMETHING THAT
YOU'RE GONNA FIGURE OUT
00:15:21.434 --> 00:15:22.400
IN REAL TIME.
00:15:22.500 --> 00:15:23.566
REBECCA: THAT'S TRUE.
00:15:23.666 --> 00:15:24.533
JONATHAN: SO I AM SO PROUD
OF YOU BECAUSE OF THAT,
00:15:24.633 --> 00:15:25.967
AND NOW WE HAVE OUR
THIRD KID COMING.
00:15:26.067 --> 00:15:28.066
SO THERE'S GONNA BE
A WHOLE NEW LEVEL
00:15:28.166 --> 00:15:29.467
FOR ME TO BE
PROUD ABOUT YOU.
00:15:29.567 --> 00:15:30.300
REBECCA: THANK YOU.
00:15:30.400 --> 00:15:31.366
AND I THINK
BEING A PARENT,
00:15:31.466 --> 00:15:32.933
I THINK WE BOTH
CAN AGREE IS
00:15:33.033 --> 00:15:34.133
SUCH A FULFILLING THING.
00:15:34.233 --> 00:15:37.066
I THINK IT'S ONE OF
THE BEST JOBS WE HAVE.
00:15:37.166 --> 00:15:39.433
JONATHAN: IT'S SO
TRUE THAT GOD CREATED US
00:15:39.533 --> 00:15:40.967
TO HAVE FAMILIES.
00:15:41.067 --> 00:15:41.867
REBECCA: IT'S TRUE.
00:15:41.967 --> 00:15:42.933
JONATHAN: AND
THAT'S WHY IT'S SAD
00:15:43.033 --> 00:15:45.367
THERE'S SUCH AN ATTACK
ON PEOPLE AND CULTURE,
00:15:45.467 --> 00:15:47.400
RAISING CHILDREN,
HAVING KIDS.
00:15:47.500 --> 00:15:50.267
IT'S LIKE BECAUSE GOD MOST
DEFINITELY CREATED US.
00:15:50.367 --> 00:15:51.900
'CAUSE HE SHOWED
ME AND YOU
00:15:52.000 --> 00:15:53.900
SO MUCH OF OUR
RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM,
00:15:54.000 --> 00:15:55.067
GOD THE FATHER,
00:15:55.167 --> 00:15:57.067
THROUGH OUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH OUR CHILDREN.
00:15:57.167 --> 00:15:58.467
REBECCA: AND JUST LIKE
I WAS TALKING ABOUT,
00:15:58.567 --> 00:16:01.067
HOW MARRIAGE WILL CHALLENGE
YOU AND MAKE YOU GROW,
00:16:01.167 --> 00:16:03.267
CHILDREN ARE A WHOLE
NOTHER LEVEL OF CHALLENGE
00:16:03.367 --> 00:16:04.567
AND MAKING YOU GROW.
00:16:04.667 --> 00:16:05.634
BUT IF YOU EMBRACE IT,
00:16:05.734 --> 00:16:07.433
YOU'LL BECOME A
WAY BETTER PERSON.
00:16:07.533 --> 00:16:10.400
IT REALLY WORKS OUT
SELFISHNESS WITHIN YOU,
00:16:10.500 --> 00:16:11.634
WHICH IS SO IMPORTANT.
00:16:11.734 --> 00:16:12.900
BECAUSE TO BE IN THE
KINGDOM OF GOD
00:16:13.000 --> 00:16:13.900
AND TO SERVE CHRIST
00:16:14.000 --> 00:16:15.534
WE HAVE TO LEARN
SELFLESSNESS.
00:16:15.634 --> 00:16:16.167
JONATHAN: OKAY.
00:16:16.267 --> 00:16:17.033
DO YOU WANT A QUESTION
00:16:17.133 --> 00:16:19.200
FROM CATEGORY
ONE, TWO OR THREE?
00:16:19.300 --> 00:16:20.133
REBECCA: SHOULD WE
EVEN EXPLAIN
00:16:20.233 --> 00:16:21.767
WHAT THE OTHER CATEGORIES WERE?
00:16:21.867 --> 00:16:23.066
ONE WAS PERCEPTION.
00:16:23.166 --> 00:16:25.534
TWO IS CONNECTION,
IS GOING DEEPER.
00:16:25.634 --> 00:16:27.200
AND THEN THREE
IS REFLECTION,
00:16:27.300 --> 00:16:28.500
WHERE WE REFLECT.
00:16:28.600 --> 00:16:31.267
DO ANOTHER NUMBER THREE
SINCE IT'S THE DEEPEST LEVEL.
00:16:31.367 --> 00:16:32.267
JONATHAN: NUMBER
THREE IS REFLECTION?
00:16:32.367 --> 00:16:33.134
REBECCA: YEAH.
00:16:33.234 --> 00:16:34.100
JONATHAN: OKAY.
00:16:34.200 --> 00:16:35.200
WHEN WAS THE LAST
TIME YOU FELT LUCKY
00:16:35.300 --> 00:16:37.200
TO BE BY A
SIGNIFICANT OTHER?
00:16:37.300 --> 00:16:39.100
GET SPECIFIC.
00:16:39.200 --> 00:16:40.067
DON'T SAY ALL THE TIME.
00:16:40.167 --> 00:16:41.367
THAT DOESN'T COUNT.
00:16:41.467 --> 00:16:42.500
IT'S A DETAILED QUESTION.
00:16:42.600 --> 00:16:43.500
REBECCA: I REALLY DO
FEEL THAT WAY ALL THE TIME.
00:16:43.600 --> 00:16:44.833
JONATHAN: THEY SAID
YOU CAN'T SAY THAT.
00:16:44.933 --> 00:16:47.233
REBECCA: I KNOW, BUT DIDN'T I
JUST SAY THIS TO YOU LAST NIGHT?
00:16:47.333 --> 00:16:48.933
I SAID YOU'RE DOING
SUCH A GOOD JOB -
00:16:49.033 --> 00:16:50.100
JONATHAN: YOU DID.
00:16:50.200 --> 00:16:51.000
REBECCA: OF BEING A HUSBAND
AND TAKING CARE OF ME
00:16:51.100 --> 00:16:52.233
AND LOVING ME.
00:16:52.333 --> 00:16:52.867
JONATHAN: DID YOU SAY THAT
BECAUSE YOU'RE PREPARING FOR
00:16:52.967 --> 00:16:53.800
THE VALENTINE'S EPISODE?
00:16:53.900 --> 00:16:54.966
REBECCA: NO. NO.
00:16:55.066 --> 00:16:55.867
IT'S BECAUSE I THINK WE'RE
IN A REALLY GOOD SEASON
00:16:55.967 --> 00:16:57.466
OF OUR MARRIAGE.
00:16:57.566 --> 00:16:58.334
JONATHAN: I AGREE.
00:16:58.434 --> 00:16:59.767
REBECCA: AND YOU
HAVE BEEN DOING,
00:16:59.867 --> 00:17:01.533
I'LL SAY IT ON THIS
PUBLIC PLATFORM,
00:17:01.633 --> 00:17:03.300
I'VE BEEN SAYING IT TO YOU
IN PRIVATE ALL THE TIME,
00:17:03.400 --> 00:17:04.467
YOU'RE DOING A GREAT JOB,
00:17:04.567 --> 00:17:05.367
NOT ONLY BEING A FATHER,
00:17:05.467 --> 00:17:06.733
BUT BEING A HUSBAND
SPECIFICALLY.
00:17:06.833 --> 00:17:08.533
JONATHAN: OKAY, SO
THE ANSWER WAS YESTERDAY.
00:17:08.633 --> 00:17:09.500
REBECCA: ALL THE TIME.
00:17:09.600 --> 00:17:10.600
JONATHAN: NO, THE
ANSWER WAS YESTERDAY.
00:17:10.700 --> 00:17:12.067
REBECCA: LAST NIGHT.
00:17:12.167 --> 00:17:13.534
JONATHAN: ALL RIGHT.
LAST QUESTION.
00:17:13.634 --> 00:17:14.834
WHAT WOULD YOU
TELL YOURSELF
00:17:14.934 --> 00:17:17.800
ON OUR FIRST DATE IF
YOU HAD THE CHANCE?
00:17:17.900 --> 00:17:19.367
DON'T WEAR PERFUME.
00:17:19.467 --> 00:17:20.867
REBECCA: STOP.
00:17:20.967 --> 00:17:22.933
I WOULD SAY IF I COULD
TELL MYSELF ANYTHING
00:17:23.033 --> 00:17:24.233
ON THE FIRST DATE,
I WOULD SAY,
00:17:24.333 --> 00:17:26.600
ENJOY THIS MOMENT, THIS
SEASON OF YOUR LIFE,
00:17:26.700 --> 00:17:27.900
BECAUSE IT'S
GONNA GO BY FAST
00:17:28.000 --> 00:17:30.200
BECAUSE LIFE ACCELERATED
SO QUICKLY FOR US
00:17:30.300 --> 00:17:31.267
WHEN WE GOT MARRIED.
00:17:31.367 --> 00:17:32.200
WE GOT PREGNANT.
00:17:32.300 --> 00:17:32.933
JONATHAN: NOT EVEN
GETTING MARRIED,
00:17:33.033 --> 00:17:34.533
ONCE WE STARTED DATING.
00:17:34.633 --> 00:17:35.734
BECAUSE FROM THE TIME
WE STARTED DATING -
00:17:35.834 --> 00:17:36.833
REBECCA: THE
WHOLE THING WAS FAST.
00:17:36.933 --> 00:17:38.400
JONATHAN: - TO GETTING
ENGAGED WAS LIKE, WHAT,
00:17:38.500 --> 00:17:39.333
SEVEN MONTHS?
00:17:39.433 --> 00:17:40.433
REBECCA: IT WAS
A VERY FAST PROCESS
00:17:40.533 --> 00:17:41.566
BECAUSE YOU MOVED HERE
00:17:41.666 --> 00:17:42.700
AND IT WAS A
LOT OF CHANGE.
00:17:42.800 --> 00:17:43.467
JONATHAN: WELL, I
DIDN'T MOVE HERE
00:17:43.567 --> 00:17:45.067
UNTIL WE WERE ENGAGED.
00:17:45.167 --> 00:17:46.600
REBECCA: BUT I'M SAYING
WE DIDN'T DATE VERY LONG
00:17:46.700 --> 00:17:47.700
UNTIL WE WERE ENGAGED.
00:17:47.800 --> 00:17:49.700
AND WHEN WE WERE
ENGAGED YOU MOVED HERE
00:17:49.800 --> 00:17:50.967
AND THEN WE PLANNED
OUR WEDDING
00:17:51.067 --> 00:17:52.367
AND THEN WE GOT MARRIED
00:17:52.467 --> 00:17:53.434
AND THEN WE GOT PREGNANT.
00:17:53.534 --> 00:17:54.967
JONATHAN: HOW LONG
AFTER WE WERE ENGAGED -
00:17:55.067 --> 00:17:56.867
REBECCA: LIKE
SEVEN MONTHS LATER.
00:17:56.967 --> 00:17:57.733
JONATHAN: - DID
WE GET MARRIED?
00:17:57.833 --> 00:17:59.100
REBECCA: FROM
DATING TO MARRIED,
00:17:59.200 --> 00:18:01.400
IT WAS ABOUT A YEAR
AND A COUPLE MONTHS.
00:18:01.500 --> 00:18:04.100
JONATHAN: BUT ENGAGED
TO MARRIED WAS WHAT?
00:18:04.200 --> 00:18:05.866
REBECCA: WE GOT
ENGAGED IN NOVEMBER.
00:18:05.966 --> 00:18:08.900
NO, WE GOT ENGAGED AT
THE VERY END OF OCTOBER.
00:18:09.000 --> 00:18:10.400
YOU MOVED IN NOVEMBER,
00:18:10.500 --> 00:18:11.900
AND THEN WE GOT
MARRIED IN MAY.
00:18:12.000 --> 00:18:12.966
JONATHAN: WOW,
THAT IS FAST.
00:18:13.066 --> 00:18:15.133
REBECCA: AND
IT WAS A LOT.
00:18:15.233 --> 00:18:16.767
WE GOT A HOME,
YOU MOVED HERE.
00:18:16.867 --> 00:18:18.533
LIKE WE DID A LOT OF
CHANGE VERY QUICKLY.
00:18:18.633 --> 00:18:20.367
JONATHAN: SO WHAT
WAS THE QUESTION?
00:18:20.467 --> 00:18:22.200
REBECCA: SO I WOULD
TELL MYSELF, ENJOY IT,
00:18:22.300 --> 00:18:25.433
BECAUSE THAT REALLY WAS
SUCH A FUN SEASON OF LIFE,
00:18:25.533 --> 00:18:28.233
TO JUST BE DATING, NOT
A TON OF RESPONSIBILITY.
00:18:28.333 --> 00:18:31.533
JONATHAN: BUT THE THING
IS WE'VE NEVER NOT DATED.
00:18:31.633 --> 00:18:33.867
REBECCA: NOW LIFE IS
MORE, YOU KNOW, INTENSE.
00:18:33.967 --> 00:18:35.234
WE HAVE ALWAYS DATED.
00:18:35.334 --> 00:18:36.667
JONATHAN: WE'VE
ALWAYS DATED.
00:18:36.767 --> 00:18:38.166
SO EVER SINCE
WE'VE BEEN MARRIED,
00:18:38.266 --> 00:18:40.134
WHICH IS NOW
OVER FIVE YEARS,
00:18:40.234 --> 00:18:43.833
WE'VE ALWAYS GONE ON
A DATE ONCE A WEEK.
00:18:43.933 --> 00:18:44.833
WE'VE NEVER MISSED IT.
00:18:44.933 --> 00:18:46.334
REBECCA: WHICH
NOW MORE THAN EVER
00:18:46.434 --> 00:18:48.300
I'M MORE THANKFUL FOR
THOSE DATE NIGHTS.
00:18:48.400 --> 00:18:49.333
JONATHAN: YEAH,
BUT THAT'S MONUMENTAL.
00:18:49.433 --> 00:18:50.800
I MEAN, MOST PEOPLE
DON'T CARVE OUT
00:18:50.900 --> 00:18:52.666
THAT AMOUNT OF TIME
FOR ONE ANOTHER.
00:18:52.766 --> 00:18:54.566
REBECCA: THEN I WOULD
SAY CARVE OUT THAT TIME.
00:18:54.666 --> 00:18:55.800
JONATHAN: YOU
HAVE TO, HONESTLY.
00:18:55.900 --> 00:18:56.934
REBECCA: BECAUSE I MEAN,
00:18:57.034 --> 00:18:58.067
YOU CAN JUST BE DROWNING.
00:18:58.167 --> 00:18:59.533
JONATHAN: ESPECIALLY
ONCE YOU START HAVING KIDS.
00:18:59.633 --> 00:19:01.233
REBECCA: ESPECIALLY WHEN
YOU START HAVING KIDS.
00:19:01.333 --> 00:19:03.300
AND I WOULD SAY DON'T
TURN ALL YOUR AFFECTION
00:19:03.400 --> 00:19:04.800
TOWARDS YOUR CHILDREN.
00:19:04.900 --> 00:19:07.167
YOU NEED TO HAVE
AFFECTION FOR ONE ANOTHER.
00:19:07.267 --> 00:19:08.967
JONATHAN: AND THEY'RE
LITTLE ATTENTION -
00:19:09.067 --> 00:19:09.700
OR AFFECTION SUCKERS.
00:19:09.800 --> 00:19:10.967
REBECCA: YEAH.
00:19:11.067 --> 00:19:13.667
AND IT'S EASY TO GET SO
CAUGHT UP IN YOUR KIDS
00:19:13.767 --> 00:19:15.133
AND YOU CANNOT GET
CAUGHT UP IN YOUR KIDS
00:19:15.233 --> 00:19:17.700
AND LEAVE YOUR SPOUSE
AT THE WAYSIDE.
00:19:17.800 --> 00:19:18.600
YOU CAN'T.
00:19:18.700 --> 00:19:20.600
AND I THINK PEOPLE
SAY THAT A LOT,
00:19:20.700 --> 00:19:22.834
BUT I THINK IT'S
HARDER TO PRACTICE.
00:19:22.934 --> 00:19:24.000
IT'S EASIER TO
SAY THE ADVICE
00:19:24.100 --> 00:19:26.133
THAN TO PUT IT INTO PRACTICE.
00:19:26.233 --> 00:19:28.100
AND SO, YES, WE GO ON A
DATE NIGHT EVERY NIGHT,
00:19:28.200 --> 00:19:30.266
BUT I MEAN, UP
UNTIL THIS YEAR,
00:19:30.366 --> 00:19:32.900
I'M GLAD WE ALWAYS
HAD THE HABIT OF IT,
00:19:33.000 --> 00:19:34.133
BUT THIS YEAR,
AND I THINK IT'S BECAUSE
00:19:34.233 --> 00:19:35.167
OUR LIFE IS MORE FULL,
00:19:35.267 --> 00:19:36.500
AND IT'S FULL
OF BLESSINGS,
00:19:36.600 --> 00:19:38.400
WE'RE BUSY,
I LOVE OUR LIVES,
00:19:38.500 --> 00:19:40.267
BUT I'M MORE
THANKFUL THAN EVER
00:19:40.367 --> 00:19:41.434
FOR THAT DATE NIGHT.
00:19:41.534 --> 00:19:42.400
EVERY NIGHT THAT
WE GET TO GO,
00:19:42.500 --> 00:19:44.134
WE'RE LIKE, OH, THANK GOD.
00:19:44.234 --> 00:19:45.833
JUST SPENDING
TIME ONE-ON-ONE.
00:19:45.933 --> 00:19:46.834
JONATHAN: AND IT'S
NOT SOME EPIC THING.
00:19:46.934 --> 00:19:48.534
IT'S JUST THREE HOURS
THAT WE CARVE OUT.
00:19:48.634 --> 00:19:49.967
REBECCA: NO, IT'S
REALLY NOT EPIC,
00:19:50.067 --> 00:19:51.567
IT'S NOT OVERLY ANYTHING.
00:19:51.667 --> 00:19:54.400
IT'S JUST GETTING TO
SPEND TIME WITH JUST YOU.
00:19:54.500 --> 00:19:55.600
IT'S MY FAVORITE
THING IN THE WORLD.
00:19:55.700 --> 00:19:56.800
JONATHAN: MAYBE IT'S
BECAUSE WE BOTH HAVE
00:19:56.900 --> 00:19:58.533
THE LOVE LANGUAGE
QUALITY TIME.
00:19:58.633 --> 00:19:59.900
BECAUSE MAYBE SOMEBODY
WHO'S NOT QUALITY TIME,
00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:01.500
THEY DON'T NEED TO DO
DATES, I DON'T KNOW.
00:20:01.600 --> 00:20:02.567
REBECCA: IT'S NOT THE
SAME WHEN YOU
00:20:02.667 --> 00:20:03.666
HAVE KIDS WITH YOU.
00:20:03.766 --> 00:20:05.033
JONATHAN: WE CAN ONLY
SPEAK FROM OUR MARRIAGE.
00:20:05.133 --> 00:20:07.000
REBECCA: IT'S NOT THE
SAME WHEN YOU HAVE YOUR KIDS
00:20:07.100 --> 00:20:08.034
OR OTHER PEOPLE WITH YOU.
00:20:08.134 --> 00:20:09.567
IT'S THAT ONE-ON-ONE TIME.
00:20:09.667 --> 00:20:10.733
JONATHAN: WELL, THANK YOU
SO MUCH FOR HAVING ME
00:20:10.833 --> 00:20:12.134
ONTHE REBECCA WEISS PODCAST.
00:20:12.234 --> 00:20:13.400
REBECCA: THANK YOU
FOR BEING HERE.
00:20:13.500 --> 00:20:14.967
JONATHAN: I'LL
BE BACK IN 2025
00:20:15.067 --> 00:20:16.466
FOR VALENTINE'S EPISODE.
00:20:16.566 --> 00:20:17.733
REBECCA: HERE,
SHAKE ON IT.
00:20:17.833 --> 00:20:19.000
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
00:20:19.100 --> 00:20:21.267
SORRY I MADE YOU
LEAN BACK LIKE THAT.
00:20:21.367 --> 00:20:23.000
HEY, ANY LAST WORDS?
00:20:23.100 --> 00:20:24.300
JONATHAN: NO,
I WOULD JUST SAY,
00:20:24.400 --> 00:20:25.867
I'M SO PROUD OF YOU,
00:20:25.967 --> 00:20:28.933
AND I'M SO BLESSED
BY THIS PODCAST
00:20:29.033 --> 00:20:30.167
AND WHAT WE'RE
ACHIEVING WITH IT.
00:20:30.267 --> 00:20:31.533
I THINK IT'S REACHING
SO MANY PEOPLE
00:20:31.633 --> 00:20:33.200
IN SO MANY
DIFFERENT WALKS.
00:20:33.300 --> 00:20:35.667
AND I KNOW THAT YOU'RE
CALLED TO DO
00:20:35.767 --> 00:20:36.933
INCREDIBLE MINISTRY,
00:20:37.033 --> 00:20:38.267
AND SO I'M BLESSED THAT
DAYSTAR IS PROVIDING
00:20:38.367 --> 00:20:40.133
THIS AWESOME
PLATFORM FOR YOU.
00:20:40.233 --> 00:20:42.000
AND I'M EXCITED FOR
THIS NEXT SEASON.
00:20:42.100 --> 00:20:42.934
REBECCA: I'M EXCITED, TOO.
00:20:43.034 --> 00:20:44.700
THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE.
00:20:44.800 --> 00:20:46.666
AND THANK YOU FOR
LISTENING OR WATCHING
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THE REBECCA WEISS PODCAST.